What is Sexual Abuse
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Differ...
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*triggering maybe*
im failing to see how i will ever get over this. how its crushed me so bad. its destroying me every waking hour of every day- my self estem, my confidence, self worth my trust, my happiness... everything. its destroying me at night with horrid dreams. im failing to see how do i get through this? i look at kids with their dads and it scares me. in the future how can i ever trust the father of my child not to do same to my child? i was sat in the cinema watching a film and there was a family of a mum,dad and a little girl about 7 and the girl needed the toliet and the mother asked if the father would take the girl. i almost got up shouted no becasue it scared me what the man would do to his daughter. its very likely he just took her and stood outside why she went but i dont trust leaving any guy with a child.i dont know its ever anything i can get over. in the future when i have kids how am i ever going to leave them around males alone? i feel like id be asking them if daddy had done anything he shouldnt which i know you can not going around asking a child but i feel so very scared about seeing children around adult males. i made a comment about this worry to my boyfriend. he got so very angry at me, he intends to spend the rest his life with me and get married and have kids in the future and thought i was saying i wouldnt ever leave our child with him, and that was what i was saying really but i know he wouldnt EVER touch a child like that he is nothing like tnhat but its a huge but what if in my head. i find it really scary thought, something i maybe need adressing before i ever have kids but seeing people around me public with kids with their dads really gets to me, to the point i almost want to go over and pull the child away. never have but i feel like it sometimes. i sound crazy i know :( Posted on 11/08/09, 02:11 pm |
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i know what you mean, i wonder the same xx 
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i know what you mean, i look at fathers with their children and think what if he is hurting that child. ur not crazy. maby u should try therapy so u can get past this so u and ur bf can have a family someday.
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My exwife thought she was doing the family a favour by giving me a room away from the kids for when I got home from work. that way I would never hit them like her father used to do. Eventually her mother kept father and children apart ... so yes, that is what she learned. There were indeed some serious confrontations between her and myself.
It's a good thing that you recognize it now; giving you time to work on yourself. Sadly, some men will abuse; however, most men will not and we have to go through life enjoying our time with the good people and sometimes it means accepting a little risk. I wish there was some absolute wisdom to share here; but it boils down to recognizing who we are and honestly trying to change what is 'wrong'. Good luck
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