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I left my abuser almost two years ago, and within the past few months he's been finding multiple ways to contact me.
The most recent was a few days ago, I was unaware of his facebook account and he has me listed as a sibling and sent me a very loooong apology. I got severely triggered and if it weren't for my best friend, I wouldn't be alive right now. I don't know what to do, whoever was around me is saying how stupid I am for reacting in such a way (am I?). My mother keeps trying to get me to befriend him and forgive him. I'm not even 16 yet and he lives in my neighbourhood, so I can't exactly escape from him if he comes near me. Any advice? Posted on 08/08/12, 02:45 am |
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I'm so sorry. Don't listen to those telling you that you are stupid, they obviously don't understand. As far as forgiving I don't agree with that. If you forgive then what? Are you leaving yourself open to futher abuse? You and no one else can have a healthy relationship with an abuser, they have an agenda which is to get away with their sick desires. Stay away from them at all costs. If possible get into therapy where there are people who understand what you are going through and will help you. Can you talk to the school counselor? 
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So your mom wants you to befriend your stalker???
*facepalm* Denial...not just a river in Egypt... I hope you saved that apology. Why? You can go to the police with it. Depending on wheat he admitted to, you now have proof in his own words of what he did. At the very least, contact Facebook and the police, tell them you are being E-stalked. You can react to his apology by rejecting it. You are under no obligation to forgive anybody for anything.
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never forgive...i tryed to deny what was done to me for so many years and all it dose is fuck up your mind. naw not only do i have little to no self-esteam, i trust almost no one and i have multiple personality disorder, and on top of all that, naw im a massokist. dont give him the satisfaction of knowing he wont be punished for his sins. never forgive a monster...
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Dont not respond to this person at all put a high block on your facebook account. Does your mother know everything does she know exactly how you feel ? Tell her no Im not going to friend this person anywhere. Let her know how scared you are. I know what its like to have a mother who doesnt understand. Ive recently wrote her a letter and am going to read it to her so that I can stay on track. Writing out all my feelings in a letter have been so relieving. Please put you first go to an adult someone who has been there for you. here if you need to talk
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Take the apology to the police! Report him! Otherwise, he can and will abuse again! That will also help you in keeping him away and from contacting you! If you cant deal directly with the police, go to your school counselor. Wish you the best!
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