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I'm looking for support from people who are or have been going throught a break-up when they have seperation anxiety.
My anxiety suffocated my boyfriend for the 6 years we were together. He also has anger issues which were then triggered by feeling trapped by my anxieties - it was a horrible and visious cycle.
Part of me knows that this is for the best, but I cannot bear the thought of him moving away from our home. I just want to feel secure and stable, as I am now in counselling and trying to deal with the issues - but I'm finding this so hard with the break up and him being so adament about moving away from me ASAP.
I'm a bit gutted that it took me so long to realise that my behaviour was not normal, and feel cheated that now the only way I can show that I'm getting better is to let him go and lose him forever. It's a catch 22 situation, and I am starting to want to cling onto him - which will only make him go even sooner.
I would love any advice from people who have been in this situation or anyone who is willing to talk to me occasionally while I get through this.
Thank you. x
Posted on 02/03/12, 07:14 am
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