What is Self-Injury

Self-harm is also known as self-injury (SI), self-inflicted violence (SIV), self-injurious behavior (SIB), and self-mutilation, although this last term has connotations that some p...

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first of all
my older sister commited suicide 2 years ago and her 20th birtdhay is coming up and i'm scared, I don;t kwo how i'm gonna handle it this year. i wnat to be with her so badly..... I wamt to cut right now buti don't have a tool.:( i miss her so badly. how do I help others going tru the same thing when I can;t even help myself? i allso have an ed and i'm strugloing bigtime with that as in I eat once a day and now I have no money for food. I just so lost right now any help would be much apperiacted .
Posted on 11/02/09, 06:11 pm
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Reply #1 - 11/02/09  7:08pm
" Im so sorry for your loss. :(
Try to think of all the good memories of her on that day. Try to be strong im sure she's looking down on you and would be proud if you didn't cutt. Im here to talk. And I will keep you in my prayers. *HUGS* "
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Reply #2 - 11/03/09  7:03am
" I'm sorry for your loss.

Don't support others heavily if you feel that you can't do it, it will only add more stress to yourself. I'm sure they'll understand.

As for distractions, have you tried reading, writing, grabbing ice, red markers etc? They work at times for me.

I'm here if you need any more advice, just add or message me, I'd be happy to help :)

x "
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Reply #3 - 11/03/09  10:15am
" I will pray for God to give you Mercy & Grace
Mercy is for Understanding
Grace is for Strength
I too am sorry to hear about your sister.
Is there a church near you that could help you with food?
tell them you are in a bad way and need food and water "
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Reply #4 - 11/06/09  6:42pm
" thanks for all teh repsonce. i have mney fr food now....,my parenmts sent ,me so9metha nk God "

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