What is Secondary Infertility

"Secondary infertility" is difficulty conceiving after already having conceived and carried a normal pregnancy. Apart from various medical conditions (e.g. hormonal), this may come...

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Hello everyone. I am new to this site but needed to hear from those of you that have been through a failed IVF then facing FET. I have 2 children already ages 9 & 11-yes, I had my girls young-live & learn:)-which I have. Anyways, my hubby & I have been ttc for 3yrs. His count is low in which we had to pursue IVF to begin w/. I had a mc on 8/25/09 at 8wks/6days now Im looking at FET on 11/12/09. I hope this really works out because I had a HARD time trying to cope & deal w/ the loss, not to mention the D&C- I lost alot of blood & almost needed a blood transfusion. Everyone at my job knew I was PG because I was "showing" so even going back to work & norm was devastating. We had a nursery ready since the 1st & am looking at fulfilling it w/ a beautiful bundle of joy just a little nervous. Anyone facing or have faced this before?????
Posted on 10/29/09, 12:10 am
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Reply #1 - 10/29/09  11:09am
" Welcome to the group! I don't have any good words of wisdom because we're still trying to decide if we want to go the IVF route or not (my husband has a low count, too). But I wanted to say hi and wish you the best while you're trying to figure this all out. I hope the FET goes well! "
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Reply #2 - 10/30/09  5:53am
" Hi, welcome to this group, everyone here is very supportive. I have gone through 2 failed IVF's, but I have never had any to freeze. I do have a 6 year old boy, but I've always wanted a big family. I am contemplating a 3rd and last IVF in January. It is a difficult road and never thought I would even get to IVF. How many embryos did you freeze? "
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Reply #3 - 10/30/09  2:40pm
" Just would like to say hello and welcome you to the group. We are all here for you. I have not done IVF yet so i don't even know how that would work. but i wish you the best of luck on your journey and I m sorry for your loss. Lots of future BABY DUST TO YOU! ;0 "
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Reply #4 - 10/30/09  8:27pm
" I had 5 emryos to freeze but recently found out that only 2 "survived" after the 1st IVF transfer( we had 2 implanted in 8/09) . So we are having the last 2 implanted on 12/11/09-GOD willing. Thanks for the support!! "
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Reply #5 - 11/01/09  10:23am
" Welcome to the group.

Sorry to hear about your misscarriage and failed IVF. I can understand your pain, secondary infertility has been the hardest thing that I have had to cope with in my life, it truely is like riding rollercoaster.

Take care x "
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Reply #6 - 11/02/09  10:46pm
" Thanks for the suppport! It's been almost 3yrs for us too-this is a roller coaster ride! It's sad how others don't understand the pain behind this all. Hang in there yourselves!HUGS "

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