What is Secondary Infertility

"Secondary infertility" is difficulty conceiving after already having conceived and carried a normal pregnancy. Apart from various medical conditions (e.g. hormonal), this may come...

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So, I wasn't going to post this, but I feel like I need to. I haven't posted for a while because I have been busy and because I am trying to figure out what my next step will be. In the last couple of weeks I was feeling really sick and had frequent headaches. Turns out it was because unbeknownst to me, I was pregnant...sort of. It was a total accident since DH and I had decided to take a break from trying while I figured out what I wanted. Didn't use any BC since I have a hard time getting PG anyway. That sure bit me in the butt! To make a long story short, I finally had the bright idea to POAS. It was positive. No joy at all considering recent history. That was wise since the next day it was already negative again. What do I do with that? Don't even know what to feel. Just in shock. Clearly I can get pregnant. Just can't seem to get it to stick. Lots on my mind right now.
Posted on 10/21/09, 07:10 pm
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Reply #1 - 10/22/09  3:28am
" No wonder you feel confused - that's a lot to take in in such a short space of time. Are you going to seek medical advice around this? Take care. It would be doing your head in, I bet. x "
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Reply #2 - 10/22/09  5:26am
" So sorry you are experiencing more heartache. I never test until I am over a week late for that same reason. What have the doctors said about all this, is there anything they can do?
Take care and hugs to you x "
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Reply #3 - 10/22/09  9:50am
" I'm so sorry you have to go through this, again. Bad news is bad enough on it's own but I think it must be worse when you think you've just gotten the best news first. I've been feeling a bit like a yoyo - bouncing between the highs and lows of hope and heartache. I'm getting really tired from all the emotions and back and forth. I wish I had the right words to make you feel better but know that I'm thinking of you and hoping you find something to make you smile today. "
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Reply #4 - 10/22/09  3:40pm
" Yes definitely going to the doc about all this craziness. That was pretty much the last straw. If I don't go, I can't get answers. And, I need answers to maintain my sanity at this point. The sad part is that I can't feel truly sad right now. I think I'm too stunned to process this bit of craziness. I'll keep you all posted as my doctor's visit is scheduled for tomorrow morning. "
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Reply #5 - 10/22/09  4:02pm
" Hey friend...this is totally crazy..you know I already pray for you but I think it's time for me to get specific with God. Things are going pretty funky with me too but we are going to focus on getting you sorted out. Did I ever give you my email? I know it's tough but as a "wise phenomenal lady once told me " lean not on your own understanding". Praying that the Great Physician will answer all your questions. "
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Reply #6 - 10/23/09  10:18am
" Yes, go to the Doctor and have them do all the tests, and then pray. Somehow, somewhere, you will find the answers. Take Care, my thoughts are with you. "
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Reply #7 - 10/24/09  4:11pm
" Ok, ladies here's the deal. Really need some stories here. Went to the doc who is wonderful. She actually gave me her home and cell numbers to get my results last night! She's an RE and OB/GYN. Anyway, I am indeed PG. However my hcg and progesterone levels are supre low. She put me on injectable progesterone and said she'll draw my blood again Monday. Has ANYONE had this scenerio and had things come out ok? Really want to be happy, but all I feel is fear and uncertainty. Please, ladies, any advice would be very much appreciated. "
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Reply #8 - 10/28/09  9:51am
" Well, Congrats on the PG part!! I'm really praying for it to work out for you! Unfortunately, that hasn't happened to me or anyone I know so I can't be much help there. But try and stay positive and as un-stressed as possible! "

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