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its been 3 days. i am having a hard time dealing with it and talking about it,
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Hang in there....
im sorry for whatever they put you through... If you ever need anyone to talk to.. im always here. 
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I am so sorry that you have reasont to be here and I am sorry for what you went through.
It's been over 5 years since my major assault and honestly, I still have problems talking about it. If its only been 3 days since this happened, please dont expect to be open about it right way. Dont feel bad because you cant. Just know that when you're ready, we are here. Celeste
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thanks. it also happened 12 years ago and i didnt report it, until last year and it has been a mess for me.
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In three days you shouldn't expect yourself to be able to talk about it or want to, your probably still in shock. Just go at your own pace and do what feels right, but i do think you should go into therapy sooner rather than later.
Good luck honey, im here if you need me
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over time it gets easier to "deal" with. but you never really get over it. it took me a while to be able to even think about it. i still cant even think if the people that did what they did to me, it sends me into a rage frenzy, then of course i have dreams about them. give it some time hun, thats all i can say. im sorry you've been through what you have, no one deserves it. if you ever want anyone to talk to, im here. conisdering its only been 3 days, [sigh] the first couple of months were the hardest for me. after that, i was able to go about my days without thinking about it constantly, after that, it gets much easier.
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mine happend 15 yrs ago and i still get nightmeres
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Hang in there! I know it's so hard right now, but it will get better. It's early days yet, so just be gentle on yourself - do things that make you feel good (even if other people think they are silly!). Nuture yourself, surround yourself with people who love and respect you. Don't put any pressure on yourself to be open with anyone - you've been through a huge ordeal, and a very personal, intimate one at that so please don't expect too much of yourself. you'll know when you are ready to talk, and when the time is right for you, we are all here to listen.
Take care of yourself through this terrible time and know that you are never alone x
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