Rape Support Group

well to be honest it stopped 4 years ago for me. i never got over it apparently , u never forget u can try i have stuffed it down for so long and it still comes up sooner or later , my advice for u is, try to work thru it, remember it ,grieve it ,let i go. write what happened down or tell someone u trust im here if u want to IM me and talk.

truthfully, you might not get over it for a while unless you get help. its been ten years for me. i was five. rape is something that is so hard to get over, especially when it was done by someone you trusted. it still hurts, i get taht. but the thing is, you don't need to get over it. you need to accept it. and i think we're both a while away from that \: and not accept it like, say heyy i was raped! but accept it, like say, yeah i was raped. and it wasn't my fault. it hurt,and its always gonna hurt. but its behind me now. and now i have the future to look forward to. IM me if you want to talk :) im finally trying to work through mine, and i think we could help eachother. just remember, im here for you if you need any help

You never get over it. Plain and simple. I know that isn't the answer any of us want to hear but it is true. You never get over the act and the memories, you just heal and heal until it doesn't bother you every day. It may come up only twice a year. It becomes easier to deal with and one doesn't think about it every day.

The thing is we will all get through it together. We help each other every day and it is amazing how much support is here. We will help you deal with the problems and emotions you are feeling until you heal enough for it not to be bothersom. I still have a long way to go. (((HUGS))) I am here if you need any help with anything. take care.

i dont think we can get over this i think that we can reach a point in which we can tell our story and not have those feelings that we felt when it was happening to us. I hope this helps