What is Rape
Rape is, in most jurisdictions, a crime defined as sexual intercourse or penetration without valid consent by both parties. In many jurisdictions, the penetration of the anus or th...
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This happened over a year ago...
On the first occassion this boy/man (he was 18 at the time) that i knew locked me in his car with him and acted nice to me then next thing i knew he was unzipping his jeans...he asked me to give him oral sex and i said no i don't want to but he kept on and insisting but i still said no, then he got annoyed and said why not and i said because i don't feel like it. Then he lifted his top up and said kiss my chest then, and i said no and he said why not? that's nothing, so i did and as i pulled away he pushed my head down and wouldn't get off...i couldn't breathe, i was choking...it was horrible. The second occassion was with the same boy/man (don't ask me how i got there with him, long story...but it wasn't by choice) it happened in the park and he got me in a headlock and was telling me to give him oral sex and i said no but he kept telling me to and i started punching his back but he wouldn't let go....after about 2 minutes of this he let go. i backed off and he came to hug me but did it again, and he said the same thing but i still said no i dont want to. Then he let go and some how he was against the tree, with me infront of him and heput his hands down my jeans and started doing stuff to me, then he pulled down my jeans and he started trying to force himself inside me and i tensed up and as he forced himself in me it REALLY hurt (more than it did on my first time) so i said no, stop but he didn't...then about 10 seconds after he was in me he stopped as he heard his friend was approaching us. Is this classed as Rape? Posted on 10/08/09, 09:10 pm |
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yes definitely...it was unwanted, and you made that known. i'm sorry you went through that hon! 
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Yes it is. I'm so sorry that happened to you. Rape is awful and it breaks my heart every time I read another story of someone being put through it.
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Well it has wrecked my life to be honest with you, i now have a boyfriend but i can't even do silly things like put my head on his stomach if we are laying down or watching a dvd as i can remember what happened in the car, or when my boyfriend is driving me home....he locks the doors (its just a natural thing to do for him) and i freaked out and had a panic attack. But im learning how to deal with it, it's getting better.
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yes it was and im so sorry
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yes
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Well it's been a year since it's happened and i am getting over it....just takes time. Thanks =) but you have no need to be sorry, nobody can change what happened. x
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any time you say no, and you are forced to, it is rape.
i am so sorry that this happened to you. no one deserves this. when you're ready, you should try to talk to some one about his. maybe a theripst or if you want to press charges, a police officer. if you ever need to talk, i'm here for you.
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First of all, I am so sorry for what you went through hun.
Yes...what happened to you was classified as rape. It was unwanted. You stated that you didnt want to do it... I am so sorry.
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