Pregnancy - Teens Support Group

yes that's exactly how i feel!

like i am not trying to push her into any decision, i'm just saying she has support and it's her choice and none of the choices are bad.

oh and as far as the comment "go get your lady parts removed" is a ridiculous suggestion. Just because at the age of 21 or under we are not ready for a child does not mean we can not have a sexual relationship. I am a married woman and plan on having children one day and HOW DARE you tell ME to either not have sex with my HUSBAND or get my tubes tied. I did not ASK for your advice and I did not see Sarah ask either. We are here to give advice and support to the young woman who posted this thread (xitsovernowx). You have no right to suggest such a thing.

Wow. Ok to strat out I hope you girls feel real tough ganging up on people! And you keep talking about forcing opinions on others... well looks to me you are doing just that! I guess you wouldnt understand my point... I never relilized how valuable a childs life was until I had a miscarriage. My counsin had an abortion and I thought nothing of it b4...When I lost my firth child it hurt sooo bad. And now I look at my son and couldnt imagine life without him if I just "wasnt ready" I mean hell... I wasnt ready... I was 18 and had my whole life ahead of me but I bucked up and became a mom and I DO NOT REGRET IT AT ALL!!! The love I have for my son is so strong and it brings tears to my eyes to think someone would miss out on being a mom just because they arnt ready! I lost a baby I WANTED and there are woman killing babies.... how could you not want a life YOU created? I am not FORCING her to do anything. She has her own mind and Im not hold a gun to her head for 9 months saying HAVE THIS CHILD. SHe came on here UNSURE of what she wanted n I b gave him my opinion and advice!! Personally I think its all a joke to get attention and start a fight between other DSers. Im done with this topic... I m not trying to hurt anyone anf u girks need to chill out!!!

and from what I see...she wants the baby but her bfdony and thats y she wants an abortion...its not even really her choice!

it is her choice, and im not out to get attention. I have also had a family member lose SEVERAL children due to miscarriage (she finally had a beautiful baby girl btw)... I am just saying it seemed to me that she was kinda getting ganged up on, people telling her she shouldnt have had sex if she didnt want this to happen and so on and so forth, thats not why she came here.. Im sure she knows shes messed up and all she wanted was support an guidance. It just seemed to me that some hurtful things were being said and she was getting ridiculed. As far as her bf not wanting it does not mean its not her choice and I hope she knows she has a choice. I am not FORCING anything on anyone. As I said before It is HER choice and she should do what is right for HER. I havent seen anyone else tell her that, all I have seen is "dont kill it", which like I ALSO said, you are all entitled to your opinion. I am not trying to "start a fight" I just wanted to make sure that this young woman knew her choices and that she should do what's best for her. What REALLY upset me was the comment of "if you ladies dont want a baby get your lady parts removed".. That was TOTALLY uncalled for.

we weren't ganging up on anyone, we were trying to get you to give support instead of saying terrible things to guilt her into keeping the baby, which is wrong.
you need to chill out, hun, not us. we weren't being rude at all and you were.
it's great that you love being a mom, but not everyone feels like that.

and like i said, i'm not trying to convince her into any decision, i'm just giving her support and letting her choose and not making her feel bad about any of the choices.

DONt give the baby up trust me i had a baby 7 mounths ago and i was going to give her up but she got really sid and died you will regret it trust me i will help you if u want.

you dont have to appoiise i am your same boat but i am due to have mine in oct10. i had anouther baby but it didned. i also have had cacner lotst of times i have no one but i going t o still keep the baby becuse the first time i didnt get to do anything with her and that baby i had my mom and my boyfriend, my mom died two weeks ago and she wont get to see her granddaughter. iam keeping her because i need to feel loved i am 17 like you. it was ur decion i dont really agree with it but thast wat you chose and i am here to support you.

it is ur decision and only yours to make. Dont let any body tell u u r doing the wrong thing if it right 4 u. It is a hard decision. Wishing you all the best

Ive never seen such a terrible case of bulling in my life. It makes me sick people talk to a young confused girl who is seeking advice. this is a support group not a pro life site u have a right to your opinion but if u cant voice it nicely dont voice it at all. U people should b kicked off this site. Ive made a complaint about this. xitsovernowx if u ever need to talk just msg me i have never had an abortion i did keep my son but that was my Choice. U need the support of your faamily right now