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This community is dedicated to the experience of being pregnant, specifically as a teenager. Pregnant teenagers face many of the same obstetrics issues as women in their 20s and 30...
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advice? & mates had a baby boy :)♥
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Stacie's Baby Boy -
7th August. 12:18am. 7lb2oz He's Really Gorgeous. Bless Him. Cant Stop Showing His Picture Off On Bebo And Facebook ..And He Was Only Born 6Hours Ago Aha! :) - ♥ loads of my mates are having babies, all not planned. but i really want one bad :( :( im 15. i just want to find the right lad or just at least one who will stand by me and then try for one straight away, i no ill probably get loads of mails or replies off people say dont think that, but i cant help what i think can i? & moaning at me and telling me im stupids not gunna help me much really.. advice please? xx Posted on 08/07/09, 01:08 am |
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not gonna say your dumb or anything to that effect i might say your to young but you don't really have to listen to that either, my only advice to you would be to wait until you find a stable guy who's not gonna run the minute you say your pregnant, some guys do like the idea of having a baby and think their ready until you really are have one and then it turns into it's not my your sleeping around you name it they'll come up with it, now back to the whole to young thing and i'm sorry but at your age chance of early birth is way high because your bodys just not sure how to handle it yet true most young teens with medical knolgage being what it is today can have a full term baby at your age but i don't know if i would do i'm 19 and have been pregnant and lost babies three times now and let me tell you thats a heart break i don't wish on anyone and i don't want you to have to go through it either. so my personal opinion is i would wait until you are a little older and till you can find a guy muture enough to handle it and stand by you no matter what.
i hope that helped message me if you wanna talk more 
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okay thanks =)
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There's no reason why you shouldn't have a baby, but there are significant reasons why it would be beneficial to wait.
1. You! You should finish your education and get a career first. Having a baby now will take up all your time, for the next 18 years. Your teen years and 20s are for having fun and finding what you want to do. You have years and years to have kids. There's no turning back once you have a child; you need time to experiment and travel first. 2. A partner. The older you both are, and the longer you are together, the more sure you can be that this is the right man to stick by you for at least another 18 years. You owe it to your future children to think long and hard about the father you want for them. Having a baby now is about (almost) instant gratification. You need to consider what the best long-term decision is for you and your future baby.
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thanks for that =)
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