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okay so i know im pregnant ive tooken many pregnancy tests all say yes that ive tooken im 13 i started my period at a young age and did NOT have concentral sex i was raped more then once buy the same guy and i skipped maybe 1-2 periods so i took a pregnancy test and what do u know positive i know its proof and i should turn him in esp since i said NO but first i need to know how to tell my mom and dad they are very religous and will most likley send me away forever and ever dont get me wrong i love them but i just dont want to tell them and i dont believen abortion but since its a situation like this what should i do i know its really not up to u to make up my mind for me but maybe u can help me make it up just help not make it up for me

Can u please help? should i hide it im almost 3 months in i should start to show soon
Posted on 06/02/09, 04:06 am
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Reply #11 - 10/13/09  12:31pm
" i know it must be hard for you but i got pregnant when i was 15 and didnt tell my mum and had a miscarriage at 11 weeks and i wish i had told her because i had to go through it all by myself. they may be mad because you didnt tell them about the rape but its not your fault and you need to remember that. I am seriously opposed to abortion and if your not sure about having one DONT! I know loads of people who have had abortions and its really affected them. Have you thought about adoption? If youre too young too cope with the baby its a good alternitive. Why not try to get an open adoption where you can see the baby? whatever you do dont hide it. you and the baby need help. go to the gp. xx message me if you want to chat xx karina "
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Reply #12 - 11/12/09  9:27am
" well sweetie I know exactly how you are feeling I was raped by my step sisters husbanc when I was 12 and i thought i was pregnant too. I ended up not being but when it came down to me telling my mother she said I was a whore and it was my fault. I know your scared and your young but sweetie you got to be strong! sit them down And just tell them that you was raped by _____ and You think he got you pregnant! ask them what to do you said they are relegious so they will most likly understand and be there for you!! If there not and they say something stupid dont let it get you down because some parents just dont know how to react to something like that! that is the one thing you never want to hear your child tell you and even though they support you they just dont know how to support you!!! either way it goes it will be off your chest love!!! as far as the baby if you do not want to keep it you said that you didn't believe in abortion I don't either but just remember there is always adotion love!! and if you need someone to talk to I am here for you ok!!!! "
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Reply #13 - 11/12/09  6:12pm
" honey you need ot tell someone and tell someone now. i was raped at age 16 and 18 but two different guys. i did get pregnante because of the rape when i was 18. i felt awfull and what not and didn't know what to do and i never told my mom. i miscarried the baby at 9 weeks. i was being abused by the same man i got out however your situation you need to report this guy he deserves to be put behind bars. i dont want to tell you what to do with the pregnancy but you need testing done to make sure your okay and if there is a baby that its okay too. you need a support system. i'm here if you ever want to talk. "
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Reply #14 - 11/12/09  6:13pm
" Katie is right you are not at fault it wasn't your fault you said no. you did the right thing by saying no. its his fault place the blame where it belongs on him. you'll be ok we are here for you "
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Reply #15 - 11/16/09  11:19am
" i think that the best thing for all involved is adoption ......its not your fault he did this and i think your parents will be understanding of the situation. Adoption will allow you to get on with your life and allow for the child to have two loving parents. best of luck with whatever your decision is xx "
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Reply #16 - 11/27/09  3:49am
" Will I am twenty-one and I am not sure that I am pregnant because I had unprotected sex while I was on my menstrual cycle I don't if I am so scared . This would be my first child if so and I really don't know what to do because I have no job and everything I am scared I might be a bad mother. "

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