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okay so i know im pregnant ive tooken many pregnancy tests all say yes that ive tooken im 13 i started my period at a young age and did NOT have concentral sex i was raped more then once buy the same guy and i skipped maybe 1-2 periods so i took a pregnancy test and what do u know positive i know its proof and i should turn him in esp since i said NO but first i need to know how to tell my mom and dad they are very religous and will most likley send me away forever and ever dont get me wrong i love them but i just dont want to tell them and i dont believen abortion but since its a situation like this what should i do i know its really not up to u to make up my mind for me but maybe u can help me make it up just help not make it up for me
Can u please help? should i hide it im almost 3 months in i should start to show soon Posted on 06/02/09, 04:06 am |
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Don't hide it... You need all the help you can get right now. I'm sure your parents will understand, they may be hurt and upset at first but just explain what happened and ask that they support you because this is hard for you. I was raped when I was 16 and found out 10 weeks later that I was pregnant. I had an abortion that I went through on my own. At the time it seemed ike the easiest thing to do. It still affects me now though. You need someone to talk to. I'm here if you feel you can talk to me. xx 
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well i have never had that happen, but i think you should sit your parents both down and tell them " mom, dad i was raped and i have taken pregnancy test and i am scared." even with them being religous the should understand, let me correct depending on the religon they will understand, most religons are that way. and if you dont want an abortion then dont do it, i dont believe in them either, but under the circumstances such as being raped, or insest, or being so young it takes a big effect on your life and not trying to scare you but it is a big risk at your age...under those circumstances it is ok to get one. do what is best for you but dont hide it, that will just make it worse.... so sit them down or right them a letter, they will never hate or disown you your their daughter and they will always love you, expecially since this is far from your fault....im sorry this happened to you...if you need anyone i am here feel free to message me whenever you want to. good luck hun your in my prayers:))
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You need to tell your parents! Explain to them what happened and I'm sure that they will be able to help you. The person who did this to you needs to be held accountable. You can't go through this alone. You also need prenatal care. It's important to your baby.
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First you need to know that you have done NOTHING wrong! You should not be ashamed to tell your parents. They will be there to support you. You should also see a doctor so that you can get the proper care for your baby. Things will work out!
Let me know if you need to talk :) Take Care~ Katie
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You should tell your parents. I have become pregnant as a result of a rape. When I told my mom she was actually mad at me for not telling her in the first place. She felt like I didn't trust her because I didn't tell her in the first place. And you have to tell your parents right away. Your so young which means there's a lot of things that can go wrong with you. So you really should tell them! Soon! If you ever want to talk you can message me! Good luck!
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what ever you do dont thknk they will hate yu or anything because they are your parents they will never hate you or send you away i am also pregnant but i am 14 and i am very religous i was raped and i kow how you feel except i have onley told one person at my church and the is the most religous and she is still by my side your parents will be to so dont think they will hate you but please i would like to add you as a friend becasue we are going threw the same thing except you are 3 months i am a month and a week
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if you tell your parents the whole story im sure they will understand. and im sure because they are religious they wouldnt do anything to harm the baby. just be honest. and if you and them decide to do adoption see if you can find a family who will alow u to see the baby any time you want. its very hard but our parents love us and im sure will understand.
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I was 19 when I found out I was pregnant. The worst thing you could do is hide it. I thought my parents would freak out, they did but then became really suppotive, they were my biggest support. For the health of you and your baby you really need pre-natal care and support. It's not as bad as you think, yes, i'm sure they might "freak out" at first like any parent would. But I think it would be better if you tell them and get the help you need. and most importanlly pre-natal care. your in my prayers. Good Luck hun. :) I wish you the best. If you need anyone to talk to, you can message me if you want. i'm thinking about you
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the guy is an asshole! seriously tell your parents
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