Pregnancy - Teens Support Group

who needs him if he is going to be like that anyways? a child does change alot of people and it already has changed you! i would liek to say congrats on the pregnancy its a long road but its worth it!! and its not upto him you to have an abortion its up to you. if your willing to make that decision then please have good reasons behind it. there are better ways to give your child a chance in life if you cannot provide them a good life. like adoption wether it be a closed or open adoption its much better then abortion. plus you would feel much better about things. i myself am i teen mother im married now to the man of my dreams who isant my daughters father but he he stands behind me in what ever i do and takes the roll of dad. he is the only father she has ever known im here if you want to chat

thanx for your advice i relli apreciate it, it seems like the more time goes by the more i want to keep my baby and give him or her a home.i noe that it will be hard but i know i can make it and i am done with school and even got my cna so it doesnt look so hopeless to me i will be making decent money as a cna and i dont really feel like i have a good excuse to get an abortion other than i am young and unprepared.i had an abortion when i was 16 and i know back then i couldnt of handled it especially becuz i was in a very abusive relationship.now is different tho and my boyfriend is being very immature about this and very selfish.i can imagine wen i have my baby nd the love i will feel it will all be worth it!

The decision 2 keep ur baby or not is urs and urs alone dont let any1 pressure you. A baby will just put more pressure on a relationship not save it so dont think this boy will grow up and change just bc of a baby. Being a single mum is hard but it comes with so much love i wouldnt change it 4 the world. i wish u all the best xx

dump the jerk u can do it on ur own. I had my daughter when i was 17 years old, i am now married to her father after 4 1/2 years of dating, we are both 19 now and a few days after my 20th birthday i am due with our second child. this august as i just go pregnant with our second child. i went to a school for teen moms and am a proud graduate, but i was 1 of 3 girls still with the father out of 48 girls it was common to see teen moms without a baby dad. keep ur kid im telling ya it can change your life, but if you dont want to then adoption dont abort

sweetie I was 15 when I got pregnant at first my childs father was like that because he said he wasnt readi even though he was 24 at the time! We split up when i was 3 months. i about went crazy i didnt know anything about being a mother and i had a real fucked up ass child hood and never wanted that for my child and i never wanted her not to grow up in a house without both parents. My childs father was there for about 3 weeks after she was born got off of the streets got 2 jobs "for her" but still isnt there and dont do nothing for her! i mean it changed him for the better he is there for his girlfriends kids just not mines! right now you are proly feeling scared because you dont know about parent hood? you are proly worried? worried because you don't know how you are going to do it alone? but it is possible my daughter is now 3 im 19 im in college I work have my own place and everything and have had no help from his family or mine! i will never say being a single mom is easy because its not by far but its worth it! Now that I look back at my life around the time i got pregnant i wasn't going to school i was using and selling drugs staid drunk and just pissin away my life the day i found out i was pregnant everyything changed for me I got mu ged got a job my own place! then I kinda looked at it like god was punishing me for fucking up my life but now i realize he blessed me with me with my child to put me back on the right path to help me better myself! you don't need him if he ever chooses to step up then allow him too but you can never force a man to be a father it don't work i know i tried at first now im just like oh well forget him im mommy daddy gma gpa and everyone else and my child is soo happy with the life im able to give her!