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i hooked up with this guy last week. i'm allergic to condoms, so we didn't use one. he came in me. now i'm so scared. i don't want a baby. ever. not even when i'm 30. i don't know if i can kill my baby though. do u think it has a soul yet? please help me. i might kill myself.
Posted on 10/12/08, 04:10 pm
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Reply #31 - 10/08/09  10:11pm
" I'm 18 and I'm in my first trimester. I was considering all my options when I became sure of my pregnancy, but now that a couple weeks have passed I'm so glad that I didn't have an abortion. I'm attached to my baby already, and I can't wait to be a mother. I believe that women have the right to choose, but I think that LillithJean only told you a horrid scenario. I attained my GED last October, and I haven't strengthened my education any further yet. Thankfully, I have amazing parents that are completely supportive, and even though the father is not, I'm still sure that I made the right decision. Even if you have a child, you can still follow your dreams with some help. Don't be completely pessimistic about this. Just make sure you're pregnant before you start worrying too much. Best wishes. ♥ I'm here anytime you need to talk. "
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Reply #32 - 10/08/09  10:13pm
" And, if you are pregnant, maybe you could consider adoption. Yes, it would be hard... but maybe your child could change the world. Everyone has a purpose. "
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Reply #33 - 10/21/09  5:39pm
" hey dont have anobortion babies are a miricles trust me. i just had anothr one after my other one died my mom died of cncedr and my dad left me i have no body. i am only 17. i lover her to death and would never get anobortion. butthat is my thought. it would be so hard. its totally up to you. and if you need anyhelp at all e- mai9l me and ill try and help as much as i can "
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Reply #34 - 10/28/09  4:27am
" right now you shouldnt be worrying as much wait until ur meant to have your period and test if you miss it if u have ur period as normal then theres nothing to worry about.

but in the case of there being a baby


im a beliver in making the "right" choice

that choice is whats best for you in your own way for some it might be abortion because they cant cope with the baby or cant pay for the babys upbringing

for some its keeping it which is a life long job. from the moment that babys born you can kiss ur childhood goodbye

for you who doesnt even want a child i would suggest that its proberbaly best to not keep it

oh and until its 3 months you shouldnt even think of it as a baby cuz all it is is a small clump of cells starting on its way to becoming life but not there yet

its hard to think of it like tht but im having to atm because my gf might get an abortion because her family are pressuring her into it

the chances taht ur not pregnant are quite high me and my gf had unprotected sex many times before she got pregnant "
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Reply #35 - 11/01/09  10:48pm
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Reply #36 - 11/03/09  10:10am
" sweetie there is a small chance your pregnant depending on how fertile you and the guy are. but I am asking you please do not abort it if you are! I was 15 and pregnant my childs father left when i was 3 months and yes its hard but belive me you will love it at first you mite be scared or however you are feeling but when they place that pretty new born in your arms all your worried go away. If you realli feel as if you do not want it give it up for adoption there is so many wounderfull familys out there that would love to except your child in thier lives!!!! "
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Reply #37 - 11/14/09  1:05pm
" it has a sould if you are pregnant. think of adoption not abortion its not that bad to keep a kid for 9 months in your stomach, i gave birth to my daughter who will be 2 next month and at birth she was 9 pounds 11 ounces so i dont no why people are so worried i was 98 pounds before i got pregnant, now im 120 pounds and pregnant with me and my husbands second child. im 19 it is possbile to change your mind and when its born you will love the child if not try adoption its your best option "

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