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i hooked up with this guy last week. i'm allergic to condoms, so we didn't use one. he came in me. now i'm so scared. i don't want a baby. ever. not even when i'm 30. i don't know if i can kill my baby though. do u think it has a soul yet? please help me. i might kill myself.
Posted on 10/12/08, 04:10 pm
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Reply #1 - 10/12/08  4:40pm
" o. and what is the chance that i'm NOT pregnant? "
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Reply #2 - 10/12/08  4:47pm
" well theres a good chance your not pregnant cause my bf and i were actaully trying and it took us forever and unfortunatly i'm a believer in pro-life which means in my mind yes it if you are pregnant has a soul from conseption to birth your baby is a human and has a soul "
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Reply #3 - 10/12/08  10:05pm
" please please please dont have an abortion! i've seen four people close to me make the decision to have an abortion and all of them regret it and now wished they had had their babies. i don't know how likely it is that you are indeed pregnant like emobeauty said it took her and her boyfriend awhile to get pregnant. i am very much pro life and a mom myself and i believe and know with my mind heart and soul that even the unborn have a soul! life begins at conception no doubt about it! even looking at pictures of all my ultrasounds my daughter was never a clump of cells! i loved my pregnancy even though it was rough i was sick for seven months of it and hospitalized four times but it was so worth it! it was amazing how much i grew in love with my daughter! please if you would ever like to talk message me on here! "
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Reply #4 - 10/13/08  1:42am
" thank u all so much for replying. i don't think i'll have help from the dad IF i am pregnant and IF i do keep it.... sigh...... "
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Reply #5 - 10/13/08  11:33am
" Please don't consider abortion if you are pregnant! It will be something that haunts you your entire life! I gave birth to my beautiful son when I was 18 and all alone. I couldn't imagine if I had killed him. There are tons of people who are waiting to adopt a child. If you are pregnant, this baby is a gift from God and deserves a life. I believe the soul enters the body early on. The heart beats at around 30 days. Please, Please don't consider an abortion! Check this site out www.care-net.org These people can help you out a lot. I have a few friends that have contacted them and it really helped out. "
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Reply #6 - 10/13/08  3:07pm
" Please go to priestsforlife.org and know beyond a shadow of a doubt that abortion is NOT the answer. I am a mother now at 38 years old to a 2 1/2 yo son. But I had an abortion 13 years ago and not a day goes by that I don't regret it! I was a coward and made a horrible choice. I know that God has forgiven me, but it's been difficult forgiving myself. You're in my prayers. "
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Reply #7 - 10/13/08  11:05pm
" priests for life is an amazing i guess group then? growin have you heard of Rachel's vineyard? they hold retreats for women who have had abortions seeing as you know about priests for life i'm guessing you're catholic ( i am too!!! :) ) anyhow they hold amazing retreats and and many women experience the forgiveness they need they hold a memorial service for your baby. i have friends who volunteer with Rachel's vineyard and have only heard positive things. "
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Reply #8 - 10/13/08  11:25pm
" take a test "
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Reply #9 - 10/14/08  12:20am
" Well, darling, abortion isn't a matter of god.
Let me tell you something. Out of the near thirty days of every month, you are ovulating for only three days. The sperm has to successfully fight through the protective mechanisms in your body AND reach the egg in time. There is a very very good chance that you are NOT pregnant. Getting knocked up takes more then what most people consider. If you are pregnant, however, it is entirely your choice to have an abortion. If you are relatively young and have a career or education ahead of you, it would be wise of you to have an abortion for the sake of your well being.
Consider this- you are a single teen mother who never graduated highschool, ergo, you can't get a good job. Your child grows up in poverty and without food. Do you really want to put another being threw that JUST because it seemed 'unmoral' to have an abortion? It would be selfish and cruel of you to bring a soul into this world under circumstances like that. "
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Reply #10 - 10/14/08  10:20am
" Although LillithJean has a point about poverty and what not there are also organizations that will help you if you are pregnant. I have multiple friends, plus myself that have WIC and some that have gone back to college to pursue careers. If your family is behind you it makes everything easier. And you can still have a future if you become a mom. "

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