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Hey girls, I could use some advice or a shoulder to cry on. My hubby and I just split. His drinking was out of control again after doing so well for so long. I couldn't take it anymore and I asked him to leave. He is living back at his mom and dads an hour away. I am really down. Isabella is 9 months old and I'm due with our second in December. I just don't know how I can do this alone. I am angry, scared and dissappointed. He doesn't see Isabella much because he's an hour away. I feel so sad for her. Life really isn't supposed to be like this.
Girls, I could really use you now. I need to keep my chin up for Isabella but it is so damned hard. This stress is killing me and I hate to think of what it's doing to my little munchkin on the way. Any advice would help. Posted on 07/04/09, 09:07 am |
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i wish i could help you. I have no idea what to tell you. my situation is different, but not totally, though me and hubbs are still together, he wont be here before during for for 4 months after birth and im so scared. just remember that you can do ANYTHING for your kids. Hopefully this will get his butt in gear and he can get himself some help! My thoughts and prayers are with you!! 
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Hey I am dealing with something similar. My husband was diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis and has taken up drinking a couple nights a week to deal with it. He was an alcoholic who has quit for 9 years... but something traumatic comes along and he gets boozing it up. It is hard but hang in there. Would he be willing to go to counselling so that you two can work things out??
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Hi. That effin' sucks! You're right its not supposed to be like that-and stress is the worst thing for you right now. But you can make it if you have to. Be strong for your babies. It will be ok. What makes your husband hurt so bad that he turns to alcohol? Or does he just buzz seek? Is he abusive to you? Maybe you can tell him how much you love and need him and need your family together and beg him to get help for the sake of your family. Don't give up. Can his parents help? You won't be given more than you can handle. Keep your chin up! It will get better.
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Hi Luvmybaby.
how are you feeling today? i just joined this site and saw your story. Im really sorry to hear that things are rubbish at the moment. you have a beautiful little girl and another gorgeous likkle baby to look forward to and those 2 things alone will keep you going. i hope you have lots of friends who are looking after you right now and i really hope that your husbads realizes what he is doing and seeks help as soon as he can, are hs parents suppotive of you? wish there were magic words to make everything better, but all i can do is wish you good luck, snuggles and if you need anything let me know xxx
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All I can say is personally I think you will cope better this way as you won't be dealing with him 24/7 aswell as looking after Isabella and bump.
It's a scary position for you to be in but you can do this. We will support you all the way
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you are not alone. You are a strong woman for making him leave and teaching your daughter a great example, if someone doesnt treat you the way they should you should not stay out of fear. Horay for you making the adult smart choice. Thank you for being so brave.
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