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I have discussed before about the crazymaking, gaslighting behavior of my guy I finally threw out. (he's still in town) . Then the others followed his indoctrination, like a cult. I have known all these people. It is hard to take. I am so full of fear with the enxt thing,prank, yelling from his part time girlfriend at me, telling me she is my boss. I just want all of them to leave me alone, but this bastard gets into everyones heads like a virus with his looks charismatic ways, etc. I made two police reports and asked a policewoman who I know from my town after I went to the church dinner and the woman yelled at me. The police woman went to her house and asked her in my behaf to cease and desist because the woman is always coming over to my table or something she does not have to do. There is a guy who is into witchcraft and has done spells when he has gotten mad at people, throwing eggs at their cars. Since all this negativity is directed at me and it's all about power. This guy who goes all ove r to talk to people about me is so nasty he won't give up. He has money and all and looks and he always seems to get hiss way with people.Sex,etc. Now a couple of days ago I went into my local church and had to ask the man at he door , who knows the woman to give her 10.00 I owe her and sign a receipt . She was in a 12 step meeting. Good I looked to see if she was there. Now I go outside and there was some kind of roots, twisted , really weird looking, right on my porch. I asked the neighbor if they left it there. the anwser is no. I put those weird roots, about 5 inches long , across the street. My girlfriend tells me to pray for protection and put a cross outside my house. I am scared. I can just imagine how funny these people thought to put it there. I saw something on youtube about gaslighting groups of people who for whatever reason want to destroy someone mentally, physically and don'[t stop until the person is a wreck, commits suicide or whatever.I have experienced this with one of these people at a time over the curse of thirty years, but now it's worse on me. I have become a target. The woman looks like shes thriving, lots of money and they all stay there. There's proff of someone I know telling me what was said about me in the house, by her and him, the main guy. Suggestions?
Posted on 10/12/09, 04:10 am |
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For what it is worth, my advice would be to not listen to any of them. I know how you feel. If you meet a bear in the woods,you want to keep your eye on him. Somehow it's safer to be in the woods with the bear and know what he's doing than to run and not know where he's at. That's how I felt for a long time. I wanted to know what he was saying and doing. I felt safer that way. It like I could assess what level of danger I was in. It's hard to not know, after awhile I think it was better. You're playing into their hands by always needing to know. It works on you mentally and they know it. I know it seems dangerous but give it a try. Ignore and don't listen to what people tell you is going on. Alot of what he's doing is just to keep you mentally confused. Although these people can be dangerous, most of it is just mental torture.
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I appreciate your advice, about knowing where the bear s, but I am dealing with a group of people on drugs, and being given the great treatment, because this woman is jealous of me and has the resources to house many addicts , drunks, etc, and mental patients, like she is, has lots of money and free lodging in a big beautiful house left to her by her father, pays nothing and rents to people for free. Okay, thats good for everyone involved. Except she is a mania(manic depressive) who stays up two days, and people will turn on me, who has a heart condition and lives alone. With this man's rule over her, her co-dependency on him, and his INSISTANCE on getting his way, and he most always does (cause he's so CUTE!) any way he can do it. He has many co-dependants! Even a lawyer he sees. Get it? Gaslighting, crazy making, and complete denial of any of his or her actions when asked of them-they don't do nothin"! JUST MENTAL TORTURE? Excuse me, but are you alright?
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Jenny...in my opinion...you need to get the hell away from all of that stuff...every single bit of it.
Reading between the lines of your post, I am 100% positive that NOTHING good is happening there...not a damn thing. Get out, get away, seek family and friends that can help you escape.
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I agree with jay and will, ignore it. And get away. And i can say as a person who has literally met a bear in the woods. I felt safer there than what i hear you describing. These people only have as much power as you let them have over your thoughts. Find support.
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