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I dont wan't to be jealous.
My two closest friends from back home (one has a baby, and is pregnant again) and another just had her baby girl this morning. I am so jealous. So very jealous. I want it to be my turn, and it may never ever happen. These girls dont even have jobs, or a house. Why is it that they get to have this? These girls are everything to me, and I dont want to be jealous, or mean, I want to be happy and excited for them, but I cannot even find it in my heart to be sincere about things when my friend complains about having morning sickness. How dare you?! I would give anything to have a baby inside me and have to put up with that, I'd be sick every single day of my life if I could have a baby. Help me, How Do I control this jealousy and look up towards my future, and still be a growing part of my friends babies lives? Posted on 11/06/09, 10:11 am |
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I totally feel your jealousy...i wish i knew how to fix it but i dont have the answers for you. I want what my friend has she has a husband and baby and she takes it for granted everyday, she threatens to leave her husband and break up her family when she has great things right in front of her. I was just diagnosed with pcos, i am not currently trying to get pregnant and do not know if i even can, but i know that i want what she has. The thing that has helped me the most is to try and make her see what awesome things she has right in front of her, and i love that baby as if he was my own! It helps to be close and try to push those negative thoughts away. I hope that you will make it through and your turn will come to have your own babies, your time will come when it is meant to happen! stay strong and just try to stay positive! i know its hard but you can do it! 
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join pcos babies group, good info provided a lot of the time when you don't try it happens. we get so worked up trying and focusing on it so much it wears us down. hope you feel better best wishes & baby dust
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I totally know the jealous feeling. It helps me to talk to others on here because there is always someone who can relate. Although I was blessed with a daughter 2 years ago (clomid). We are trying again and have been for 8 months with 2 possible ovulatory cycles (late- days 23 and 36). I want you to know somewhere in your heart that you WILL become a mom sooner or later. I know you wanted it yesterday but just think how loved your child will be when you meet him or her. Remember what you are saying about the morning sickness and everything else. Enjoy every second when it is your turn. I know I didn't and now I want more than anything to experience it again and to not take it for granted. I know its easier said than done but things will happen for you. Its just a matter or when. Keep your head up, don't feel guilty about your feelings, and stay strong! Baby Dust!!!
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I COMPLETELY understand!!! You described exactly how I feel! I just got bombed with baby news last night, and I am trying my hardest to be happy for these people, but just can't find it. I can sure fake it, but I know it's not genuine. I've been TTC for 4 years to no avail, and for most of that time we haven't been "actively" (i.e., counting days, etc.) trying. Mostly because there's nothing you can do when you don't have a cycle at all.
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its only normal to feel this way i have gotten past the jealously i am now angry i have friends who arent even with there partners when they had there babies i dont think its fair either. have u tryed testing to even see if it possible. it may not be a dead end.
my doctor is helping me but i wont know weather or not i have have kids untill then.
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