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If you had to pick the one thing he did/does to you that hurt you the most - what would it be?

Mine... Silent Treatment
Posted on 11/06/09, 03:11 pm
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Reply #1 - 11/06/09  3:20pm
" All of it. Betrayal! "
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Reply #2 - 11/06/09  3:27pm
" Turning against me with his kids, not believing the truth of situations, being blind to it, discounting my intelligence..(sorry that's prob more than one but hard find the right descriptor) "
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Reply #3 - 11/06/09  3:43pm
" Being blamed for everything "
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Reply #4 - 11/06/09  4:12pm
" What hurts me the most? I would have to say the aftermath....the permanent damage/trauma caused by my abuser. "
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Reply #5 - 11/06/09  4:27pm
" Telling me he didn't want to celebrate by 47th birthday...could we do it another day????? It felt like a knife in my heart. I took a pill to go to sleep for the day it hurt so bad, while he went out and did what he wanted. He didn't even try to have made amends when I woke up. I didn't even have words for what I was feeling at the time. Now I know....He just didn't care! "
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Reply #6 - 11/06/09  4:29pm
" Sorry to hear that feellike...they have an uncanny way of ruining special occasions! "
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Reply #7 - 11/06/09  4:43pm
" He stole what was left of my childhood and completely wasted my 20's. "
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Reply #8 - 11/06/09  5:39pm
" He would completely ignore me, our kid, even the dog when I was sick and needed the most help. "
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Reply #9 - 11/06/09  6:18pm
" Whacking me over the head -- figuratively -- with his sense of God! "
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Reply #10 - 11/06/09  6:34pm
" treating me like i was a horrible, good for nothing person whilst smiling and chatting with all of the others in the room and making sure that nobody noticed... he even did it at Christmas with my parents, speaking to them and me sitting in the car knowing that when we got to where we were going and we went off on our own, he wouldn't say a single word to me. i hated that day. the making up was almost the worset because there was no control over when or how it would happen, and no room for me to express my emotions or how i felt for fear it would start all over again.

but it was all pretty bad. is, pretty bad. "

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