What is Physical Emotional Abuse
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No Negotiations with a Narcissist
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Three years out of my abusive marriage and my ex husband has not changed one bit. He has had meds and therapy to no avail.
We had a settlement meeting in July where we mapped out our son's schedule until he is 18 basically. Now he wants that schedule to have some flexibility but the catch is that he wants ME to be flexible but he won't allow me the same. When I won't allow him his way he tells me I don't have our son's best interests in mind...really, it's the only way he can tweak me. For the narcissist, life is a one-way street and it all leads to their fragile egos. To all others negotiating child sharing with a narc...get it all in writing... that way there is no legal right your ex has for warping reality to their will. Posted on 11/04/09, 10:11 am |
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But remember that some still do it even with the papers signed and ready to go. 
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You got that right. It's their way or the highway.
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Great post wvart. They railroad you in the negotations, you give them there way, and still its not goot enough. I think they are drama queens.
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Yep so so so so true. And the bit that hit home particularly? "You are only hurting our son" and "You need to remember to put his interests first". Grrrrrrrr I am SO sick of the bastard who refuses to pay any child support, can't bring snacks to access visits, has NO sense of responsibility, not to MENTION the horrible things he did in front of him and threatened to do to him, telling ME I don't have my son's best interests at heart.
Deep breath, deep breath ... calm blue ocean, calm blue ocean ... ok rant over.
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