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STBX President of Condi Assn!
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Got minutes of October condo assn meeting in my mailbox this a.m. I'm pretty sure, in the last minutes they were talking about having elections, but I was never notified of this. So, now these "new" minutes have arrived and stbx has moved from secretary treasurer to president of the condo assn. Well, it's for the best he is treasurer because he doesn't need access to condo funds with his past. But, there is it listed at the top of the minutes of every page (which they never did before). My blood pressure has gone up. It irks me because there is nothing I can do legally, but I'm not as miffed as I once was. Also, the last correspondence I had from condo assn said I was very welcome at the meetings (after I had written them about not keeping me notified, excluding me from decisions, etc.) So, new neighbour says, since then they got a letter from stbx's lawyer advising them to exclude me from all business. Well I got a copy of the minutes, but no invite to this last meeting, and certainly no notification about nominating and voting for executive. As I said, there is nothing I can do legally, but I certainly do need to vent!
Posted on 11/03/09, 09:11 am
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Reply #1 - 11/04/09  3:29pm
" I don't blame you - THAT'S INFURIATING! Are you sure you can't do anything? Have you looked at your Condo's bylaws? Maybe you could get a free consultation with an attorney and see what he says! "
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Reply #2 - 11/04/09  8:24pm
" Thanks for your reply. I have talked to lawyer about this. Because husband took mortgage out in his name and I am on title with "dower rights only," there is nothing I can do. The neighbours decided to side with him anyway because he says yes to the things they do without thinking or questioning, whereas I like to ask questions. I guess they want an automatic yes to anything they suggest and I have found that they certainly don't like to answer questions. There are only 2 neighbours ... one has moved out thankfully, the new one is being misled and doesn't know it. It's a crappy situation, but at least daughter and self have a roof over our heads. "

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