Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group

Scrooched...your profile says you need a real friend to talk to, then you ask people not to send you a friend request if you haven't spoken. Your last post was rather vague...and you didn't ask anything...it seemed more like a vent, and was hard to comment on because of lack of details.

You have to open the door if you want people to walk thru....Let us in and we will help....but if we can't see you we can't help. If you are invisible, perhaps it's because your door is closed... I don't think it's a conspiracy to make you feel bad....

I wish you luck...and hope you find what you need. Hugs...

This is an excellent example of grasping at straws.

My profile simply says that I wish to talk first. Many people's profiles say this. It's simple: someone replies to a post. We've spoken. Someone sends the other a request. It's very simple.

And my status says a real friend. As in, one of my good friends.

And, I think it's interesting that I ask for no reply and instead get one that tells me it's my fault.

And now that I've said this, you will no doubt become indignant.

No, I'm not indignant. Was an attempt to help, sorry if I upset you. I just come at things from another angle.

Best wishes, really....