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Well, I've been all down on myself this past week. Ex husband of three months is locked in fully to a new relationship, and she and her son are moving in with him this week. My daughter said "I've never once heard Daddy talk to ****** (new woman) like he used to talk to you all mean, they are so in LOVE!"
He isn't paying any child support (long story but he took a leave from his six figure income while the divorce was ongoing so he wouldn't have to pay. He went back to work as soon as it was final). So anyway no child support for me, but he is going to support someone elses child. He's gotten so comfortable that he gave my daughter his old phone, complete with all the contents on the SD card. My attorney said pull everything, and this is what I got. Parties, parties and more parties. Screenshots of pornography. Pic of new girlfriend with a handgun. Pics of about 10 trips he's taken this year. Pics that confirm his under the table business. My attorney is thrilled. We are already due in court for the child support issue, but this may become a custody issue as well. Just wanted to vent some of this out there......and see what you guys think. I posted on the divorce forum and shared with friends and many say don't be vengeful just because he has a new girlfriend.... others say FIGHT LIKE MAD. Posted on 06/02/12, 09:31 pm |
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There is a difference between being vengeful and in fighting for legitimate support for your child. I say fight like hell and ignore all of those people who are basically telling you to lay down and let him walk on you just because it pleases him.
My ex and his new gf are also SO in love. Who cares? I know what a complete shithead he is and she can have him. 
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"""""""""""""""""My ex and his new gf are also SO in love. Who cares? I know what a complete shithead he is and she can have him. """""""""""""""""
(APPLAUSE from the audience!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)
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Follow your hear!!!!! You don't have to be vengefull, but you and your daughter certainly do deserve better and there's nothing wrong with that!!! Fighting for what's right isn't being vengeful!! Best wishes xx
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I so agree with what everyone else has already said. Fight for your rights and your children's rights!!!!!
I am so tired of all the advice in books, etc. saying you need to forgive and let it go and be friends with your ex and blah, blah, blah. No, if you could do all that, it would have to be mutual with a decent person on the other end, and obviously, it is not. If it were, then the marriage wouldn't have disintegrated. Stand up for yourself and your kids, and don't spend a second feeling jealous of whats-her-name. She will not be a happy camper for long.
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Definitely fight for what is right for you and your child! It isn't about vengeance....its about the best interests of your child. If you keep that in the forefront of your thoughts, then the Universe will follow suit and you will receive what you rightfully deserve in the form of child support and custody.
Can't wait to hear what a judge thinks about handing a child a phone to keep as her own with pornography on it!! (To your ex - Way to go, Dumbass!)
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Fighting for your rightful share of marital assets is not being vengeful. Frankly, that is some crap notion borne by paternalisic and patronizing ignorance. Tapping his lines...vengeful. Calling his phone nonstop...vengeful. Pumping ex-neighbors for info...vengeful. Getting what you should rightfully have to support your children is not only right and just but quietly teaching your children a life lesson about the consequences of bad decision-making. You can be assertive without bashing him. Kids aren't stupid, and they'll figure everything out in due time on their own.
As an aside, what is it about this bozo and cell phones? Turn about is fair play, methinks!
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He's obsessed with the phone. He would play with it constantly when we were anywhere, out, in bed, church..... sick addiction.
I'm feeling good today.....his deposition is scheduled and he's going to have to answer for a lot of things. In the meantime, I'm working really hard on letting the hurt go. I'm thankful I'm out, it could have been worse. Whatever happens, happens. It's between him and God in the end anyway, no matter what the judge says, (which I know isn't going to be good for him) and he's continuing to make some really bad decisions.
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