What is Physical Emotional Abuse
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) or is unlawful or wrongful....
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He has been moving for a few days. My 17 year old said he tried kissing her and I know he hugged and bit her 18 year old friend on the ear. He says it was the zipper on his shirt. He says they are lying sluts and I am believing them over him. He says in 11 years this is the first time this has happened. I reminded him about when _ _ _ was staying with us and she started sleeping with everyone in the house. He swears he never did even thou I found a letter he wrote her describing all the things he wanted to do to her. It started out with him and our 16 year old nieghbor then she came in and took over. Then there was my best friend of 20 years that called me at work and said he was in her room asking to do things to her. Of course he says she is a liar and slut. Then there are drugs, hiding money, lying, his son molesting my grand dtr. Years of verbal abuse and put downs. Now he calls me tonite to thank me for making him sleep in his car with no blanket. He is freezing because I wont believe him. I said he was welcome to come get a blanket but he says no he'll just die. A part of me wants to go across town late at niht to where I think he is to see if he really is. My friend said No that is giving him power.; I know she is right but how do I deal with his guilt trip
Posted on 11/04/09, 10:11 pm |
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marie -----
In the one brief paragraph you shared with us, it would appear that this many is the perpetrator of truly awful acts. You deal with his latest one. . . . . "doing the guilt trip" thing. . . . . by DISCONNECTING. He's an abuser. I understand he may have been in your life a long time, but if you want to be done with his abuse ------ then DISCONNECT. There are ways to facilitate disconnecting. No one imagines it will be easy. But now it's time. DISCONNECT!!!!!!!!!!!! Basically ------ who cares WHAT he's doing???????? He's an abuser. DISCONNECT. Let him do whatever he wants to do ------- far, far away from you and anyone you care about. DISCONNECT. 
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If your child is telling you that someone is sexually abusing them, you believe your child above all else.
You deal with his guilt trip by reminding yourself that he's a sexual predator, his son is a sexual predator. You must always pick your children and grandchildren over people like this.
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Whether he sleeps in a car and endures the cold makes no difference. Apparently, In hell there will be periods of extreme cold and hot. In addition, he may even be forced to drink hot, boiling water. He better enjoy sleeping in a car now because the after life for him is going to REALLY suck!!
Stay focused on protecting yourself and your daughter. Don't let him victimize you any longer. Be done with this predator!!!
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