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I am 21 and a quadriplegic as of like 4 months ago so i am paralyzed from the chest down and can kinda move my arms.

I met this amazing girl about 6 months ago cause we both snowboard and play bball and i kinda am like falling crazy for her.. lots of my friends dont really treat me the same and its kinda awkward seeing them but when shes around its like nothing happened to me..and i want to impress her and take her on a date to see she if she feels the same way.

the only problem is i live in a home and cant do much haha i can get a day pass but i dont want to take her somewere and her have to do everything for me. i am pretty shy around her especially now and i dont even know how to make a move ha (no pun intended) lol

p.s i am one of those lame romantic guys ha and i reallllly like her i want to go all out any ideas?
Posted on 03/28/11, 08:33 pm
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Reply #1 - 03/30/11  6:46pm
" You need to work on your confidence so you can go up to any woman and without hesitation chat them up and don't stop until you put a smile on their face. Day pass? Definitely! A museum, lunch, just go for it. Confidence, Confidence, Confidence. She'll see what you have been through and be doubley impressed that you are still the same guy.

Confidence my friend. "
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Reply #2 - 03/30/11  9:43pm
" thanks man.. i asked her to go to a basketball game on friday and she said yes..suppppper nervous, but if i have to take the handi bus there do i meet her there then or she comes here then we go together? i dont want her uncomfortable so i though maybe just meet there. know anyways to flirtt with her? cause i think she thinks im like her gay friend.. i cant really tickle her or grab her or hug her or anything so its kinda up to her to make the move. "

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