What is Obsessive Compulsive Disorder OCD
Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) is a psychiatric disorder, more specifically, an anxiety disorder. OCD is manifested in a variety of forms, but is most commonly characterized b...
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Peace
I know you guys have been in communication with my girlfriend for a short period of time concerning her past and the horrible abuse she had to suffer. My name is Daniel and I am the boyfreind she speaks so fondly of and I have my own set of issues too. However I have never really discussed them with anyone in my life except her. I am aware of the psychological and emotional damage that has been done to the woman I love and not a day since I have found out do I not wish for the death of all living things in this world. Not one day do I not find myself in a deeper state of depression, self loathing and lack of will to believe in a God and the good that should be inherent in all living beings. I was so sad and gloomy almost everyday of my life before I was with her but somehow she has now filled me with more hope in miracles yet more despair at the fate of all people. I am typing to ask you if you can pls help me to understand and deal with her over sensitive emotions and extremely low self-esteem and ability to drag the last bit of hope and love I have for her with her unreasonable, ilogical, somewhat insane expectations and beliefs. I am not sure how to deal with her hyper insecurities that just push me away from her little by little. Like today I am contemplating leaveing her again, I find myself wishing I could slam her head into the wall, or run a knife into her heart with the cold and insensitive things she does and says to me. I will someday reveal my own issues so you can too understand my point of view. It scares me to see how I envision killing her and I hav had these thoughts more than once but I cannot handle her emotions by myself I need help to understand how I can help the woman I love and want to be with as long as I possibly can. My love for her runs deep and red hot and I don't want to lose her because of my issues or hers. So pls offer me some words of wisdom. Thank you Daniel Posted on 07/04/09, 02:07 am |
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Sweetie, first off I want to say that it takes courage for you to actually admit to these feelings. Since we're all human and we all have times where we want to kill a loved one. (Whether we admit it or not)
Next, I HUGELY recommend that you suggest therapy. (Individual and couples therapy) Since this seems to be an issue that you're unsure how to handle. There's never anything wrong with asking for help. Hope this helps. xxx 
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As Colorful... says. please see a therapist and ask for help.
I hope you realize the things she is saying to you are her simply repeating the behavior she was subjected to... it doesn't make it right and you should not accept it as being okay. Work on yourself, you deserve a happy and wonderful life.
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I AGREE, SEE A THEARPIST TO HELP YOU GET THRU THIS. YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY TO.
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As much comfort and advice as we can give you I still strongly believe that you ought to seek professional counceling where people who have studied how to handle these situations and feelings can help you out, even couples therapy so you both can talk to someone may be of some use to you, good luck!!
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