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Well Im not sure what your body looks like but one thing i suggest is getting in the fetal position and have your guy on his knees and from which ever angle is best for u and him(from behind u or right in front). When in doubt doggystyle is the way to go!

I could definitely understand. My boyfriend loves me on top and i can do it YET i hate it because if so uncomfortable and i feel so embarrassed that he's judging the rolls. Not a funny matter but i can see how you feel.

doggie style is almost always the best position and the easiest

Just an update, we're still having problems with my stomach getting in the way of things. And now, with my father being sick, I've stopped my diet and have been eating like crazy and I've put on more weight. So my boyfriend and I are doing what we can. I'd still love any advice people could give! Thanks!

I don't understand... I looked at your pictures on your profile and you're probably smaller than I am or at least around the same size. I also have about 100lbs to lose and I've never had trouble with any sexual position and we use quiet a few of them. Just from looking at your pictures, I wouldn't guess that your weight for in the way at all....

both me an my wife a large. 2 are comfortable for us. if im on top i angle my body to the left and brace my arms on the wall as to find that void in between both our guts lol. If she's on top it doesnt seem to be a problem. If the guy loves you he isnt gonna judge you on what you think you look like. Plus hell be too busy enjoying himself to care at all!

From personal experience, with both of us being overweight, I'd say Doggie Style as its known, and her riding on top was the best positions.

Then again, the reason the Doggie style worked was because we weren't both on the bed. She would be on the edge of the bed, facing away from me, on all fours. And I would be standing right behind her right next to the bed.

I bet the same position would work if she was on her back as well. Never thought to try it. When the guy is standing next to the bed instead on being on the bed, I think you may find it easier for him. But it also depends on the height of the guy and the bed. Experiment in the bedroom, it's very exciting.

Have fun.

My ex and I were both bigger and we would do doggie style or I would lay on my back and put my feet on his shoulders.

here here i am a larger girl and doggie style is great plus a slap on the butt and a pull of the hair. but you can mount him facing towards his feet as well that is a good fit. Or the last suggestion where you lay on your back on the edge of the bed, ankles on his shoulders and he can pump away. You can also do a 69 with some sauces etc it aint just about penertration

My husband and I got a book called Position Sex Bible. It has hundreds of positions laying, standing, sitting. My fav so far is like a scissor. One leg straight up and the other on the bed. The he straddles your second leg and hugs your first. Your foot will be right beside his face. He can even give you a little foot rub.

I volunteer at a rehab hospital and they had a seminar on educating patients on sex after rehabilitation. They even gave out pictures. Not what I expected. But here is a link to some information similar to what was discussed at the seminar. Trust me. If people in wheelchairs can have sex, so can you.

http://www.disabled-world.com/artm...