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Okay, so, me and Angel have basically told you about her kids being in care and the social workers going for a freeing for adoption order. Basically we were all really struggling to come to terms with loosing the boys the way that we did. The thing is, since the case began we kept every report that was written about our parenting and about how the boys were doing. In May 2008 we wrote a report highlighting some of the failures the socialworkers made in our case and sent it to everyone from all the boys doctors and nursery staff, the chief of police, the procurator fiscal, the sherrif, the local counsellor, the local msp, the first minister, the chair of the child protection system, the heads of the various departments in the council, and all but one of them replied that they were not in a position to help us. The one person who could help us said that there wasn't enough eveidence for a full investigation into the social workers handling of this case.
Anyway, my solicitor hired a well respected professor of social work to look and see if social services were at fault or if we were at fault, and his report is really damning for the social workers. He even wrote in his report that the social workers had used our oldest son as an experimental object. Now, I know that there is nothing that I can do to get to see the boys, but there is a lot that I can do to get some justice for james, angel and the boys. I have written evidence of at least 19 serious fundamental errors that the social workers made, and the lies that they made up. So here is my plan: 1. gather all the email addresses of all the newspapers and newsrooms in the united kingdom 2. gather all the evidence that I have 3. email all the evidence to the newspapers and newschannels, stating that the only thing that I want is a public enquiry 4. get a public enquiry, which will find that the social workers were at fault 5. Sue Falkirk Council for Professional negligence for £466million, for emotional damages that they caused James, our three kids and us. James said that that is too much but it's not really because when you think about it, we missed their first day at school, we wont see them growing up, we have missed birthdays, christmasses, we wont see them going off to college, we wont see them settle down and get married, we wont see our grandchildren, etc. 6. Write a book about what they did to us. So that's my plan, and James said that I can do it because enough is enough, and they said that I hit my sons. Everyone who knows us know that we think child abusers should be skinned alive then dipped in salt, so it's hardly likely that we would hit our kids, especially after what we went through as kids. Really, I just want to know what you would do with the information to get your justice. I'm not really bothered about everyone finding out that our kids are in care, because everyone already knows. Falkirk Council is a law unto themselves. They are a small council and yet lots of children every week are taken into care. When we first moved to this small town, there were always kids running areound having fun, every house on my street except one had at least two kids. None of the children are left, they have all been taken into care. I live in a good neighbourhood, everyone in my street works in well paying jobs, there is even a reverend living in my street so what is going on? Posted on 11/03/09, 03:11 pm |
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I would try to do everything in my power to do what was in the best interest of my kids.If it means being assertive with people in power than thats what i would do.It does sound strange that so many people in ur neighborhood have had similar experiences.I wonder whats going on there.I hope u can be strong for your kids and find a way to make sense of what has happened.I wish u and ur kids lots of warm thoughts
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Thanks Moonstruck, we have been fighting social services for five years now. We loose our parental rights this Tuesday, and the reason why so many people have lost their kids is (in my oppinion) because the manager of the local social work department has a serious attitude problem, either that or she has narsasistic personality disorder, and because she is in a position of authority, everyone is scared to go up against her, she is really bad, she contacted the welfare benefits agency and told them that Angel had asked her to inform them that she no longer required benefits and they believed her and stopped angels money, we all had to live off £18.00 per week for about six months while it all got sorted out, thats how bad she is.
I'm trying to be strong and do what is best for the kids, but I don't think we will be able to come to terms with what happened. We lost our kids because we can't control our switching!!! Of course we can't control it, of course we look chaotic sometimes, we have a mental illness, it's not like we choose to have MPD, it's not like we choose to switch! Everyone agrees that we were amazing parents because the kids were absolutely fine, they always met their developmental milestones, they were socialble, happy, outgoing, adorable little boys, they were spoiled rotten. We did everything we could to make sure that the boys had the kind of childhood that we never had, and I just don't know what we did that was so bad that we should never see our kids again. It just doesn't make any sense. Sorry for rambling, I'm just going through a lot of raw emotions right now. Thanks for the warm thought Moonstruck, it means a lot to know that people care. Kimberly
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If you have evidence of something wrong with the social worker's methods and have tried all legitimate means of resolving the issue then YES, take it to the media and let the public outcry be your voice in the matter.
My custody situation is much less extreme than your's but I am facing losing my parental rights to my son's father (originally 50/50). Here in the States, drug dealers/ drug abusers/physical abusers/etc can keep their parenting rights but for some reason mine are being taken away. And NO ONE knows about my DID!! There is absolutely NO reason for it other than my son's father stole the rights and now he is likely to get to keep them legally. All this because some dunderhead with a law degree is too spineless to stand up to my ex and I couldn't afford a lawyer the first year and a half of the battle..... Big hugs to you. We hurt for you.
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