Miscarriage Support Group

Hello All. Last time I wrote on here I got some great comments, so I am hoping for the same this time. First I want to say that I am in no way bragging or anything like that. I had a MC (don't even like saying the word) at the end of May. I just found out that I am pregnant again, but now I am having a moral dilemma. I want to wait to tell everyone, including my boyfriend. My plan was to go in next Monday for my 6 week check-up and see how things are going. I then want to go in at 7 weeks and have my blood checked to make sure the HGC levels are increasing. When I know everything is going okay at 7 weeks, then I want to tell my boyfriend. I feel like if I told him now I would be under an enourmous amount of stress and pressure. Now at the same time I feel extremely guilty and like I am keeping this huge secret. Is it fair to him if I wait and dont tell him for a couple more weeks, or is it the right thing to do and tell him before my first doctors visit? The problem I'm really having is that I'm terrified that if things don't go right again my chances of us contiuning to try are gone because he wont want to try anymore. If I dont tell him and things go wrong would I really be able to keep that from him? I just don't know what to do and its all I can think about. Has anyone been in this situation, or can anyone offer me some advice?
Posted on 07/31/12, 11:47 am