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Has anyone ever had feelings hurt when someone drops them as a friend? I cannot figure out why it happened! I did ask...but no answer.
Even if I did not want to talk anymore, and felt overwhelm(as I have felt before)I would never drop them. Especially without saying why. Am I being overly sensitive? Or should I just tell myself it was a DS snaffew-site problem. :) Is snaffew a real word? Or a word at ALL...still making me feel better to put the blame off me. But why am I still thinking about it? Posted on 11/06/09, 11:11 pm |
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Hey Carley,
People drop friends for a variety of reasons. One big one is "lack of interaction". Some will drop friends who they have not heard from in a specific period of time. Others get really depressed and drop EVERYBODY. Sometimes there is a system glitch and random friend connections get broken. I have dropped a couple friends by careless mouse clicking, and when I think I'm doing one thing, I realized too late that I dropped a friend. It could even be a matter of posting an opinion they did not approve of. In any event, I would say not to worry. It takes time to get used to the way of things here. Pepper ps, the word I know is snafu, and it is sort of an acronym. (Situation Normal All Fouled Up) lol, other use different 'F' words in it.
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DANG...you are so right! Snafu...guess I was trying to be spell checked. Thanks for being my spell check. We really need it here.
Hoping it was a errant mouse click..not so sure. Yes, still adjusting. You know we always think, secretly.."it is all about me." :) And yet it never is.
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I can't cope with more than 50 friends so I tend to drop those I haven't heard from for ages. Also, if someone has say, 90+ friends already I figure I won't be missed much. Don't take it personally, I'm sure it didn't reflect on you (if that's the right saying).
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Sorry, I should have said 'support' rather than 'cope with'.
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Sometimes "cope" with might be the right word. :)
I think everyone on these sites try our best to offer all the support we can. I never thought about people having such a huge number of friends, with whom they must always stay in touch. Guess that might get a bit difficult. I will think of it as "their loss", and not a reflection on me. Thanks for the kind words!
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