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My boyfriend and I have been together for only 4 months, not long but we are soul mates.
When we first met I was moving out of state a couple of weeks later, so we thought it wasn't going to be anything more then "fun," of course I got feelings and come to find out he felt the same way and we tried the distance of 2000 miles, I moved back to the state to be with him 2 months into our relationship. As I moved back we spent 24/7 with each other. Then he found out he was going out of the country for 3 months to visit his family, he figured we should break up because there was no way id be that happyy, of course I wasn't going to let 8000 miles take him away soo we stayed together, he's been gone a little over a month now and we talk as much as possible. But it seems we fight at least 2-3 days a week and it always comes down to me backing down because I just want the fight to be over and he closes off. What should I do about this? Like today we fought over because his brother was bad mouthing me while I was on the phone, sayingg I'm an ugly fat whore, I'm a b*tch, he deserves better, he's been cheating on me, and he said who crys outside somebodys house, (refering to the time we broke up, I couldn't drive saftlyy I was in a shock because it was the day before he left and I didn't think he could end it, the kind of crying where your face hurts :'( ). And my response was okk come back to the states I'm gonna kick your a** and he said somthing about he would hit me first, then all my boyfriend said was if you lay a hand on a girl ill hurt you bro, forget the fact I'm his girlfriend or what he just said about me, so I got upset becausee nobody should talk to a girl that way, forget the fact I'm his girlfriend and "the love of his life" Should I just bite my tongue on things like that? Because this just brought up everything from the past and of course he shut off and just said ok baby Sorryy if this is the wrong place to post this, I just didn't know where else too :/ Posted on 04/12/12, 11:26 pm |
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was him & his bro very close when you got together?sometimes if that happens they bad mouth the root of the problem which is you.due to the fact he probably don't spend as much time with him as he used to. i think you need to both sit down and talk,but personally if your fighting this much not a very healthy relationship. 
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Everyone fights...but not like this. This all sounds like alot of drama and very immature. He's threatened to hit you. What more advice do you need to walk away? You've been together four months...a drop in the bucket. You need to let this one go and find a healthy relationship to be in.
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