Loneliness Support Group

I can relate. It's very dangerous to build your whole life around one person. Like you, I feel like I have to start my life all over from scratch. In my case, it was a small core group of people I relied on -- but one way or another I have lost almost all of them in the past couple of months. It has left me feeling empty, rejected, and desperately lonely.

Problem is, desperation drives most people away. Sadness drives most people away. Until we can rebuild confidence and feel better in general, it's difficult to build new relationships.

So what's the answer? I don't know. Coming here is a good step. Take care of yourself, look after your health. Try to find anything that helps you feel better about yourself and just better in general. And try to have faith that there are good people out there just waiting for you to find them. Have faith that it's going to be better someday. That's what I'm trying to do.

Hope you feel better soon.

Long distance relationships are hard. Only time will heal the wound - wish I could ay otherwise. Gentle Hugs

if it was not international long distance calling I would offer my telephone number to have a chat or two along the way....but I am not going there on my cell phone I do not need added charges to my already $140 phone bill monthly....

I am so sorry for your breakup. It hurts so much to be cheated on. You must be furious and hurt. You sound like a caring, supportive person. One day, another woman will appreciate you and the gifts you have to offer.

If you want to friend me and chat, I'd be more than happy to visit with you. I recently got dumped myself, but it was only a 3 month long distance relationship - still it devastated me for awhile. Am over him now though. In time what you are going through won't feel so intense as well. It just takes time.

I'm glad that you found us, hope it helps you not feel so alone and lifts your spirits just a bit. So sorry for the pain you have had to endure...is there a reason you disconnected all of those things that connected you?

My only advice is what I struggle with doing myself but I would take this time and better yourself. I would work on getting in shape, start a new hobby or join a club or organization. Or just work on picking up hours if you can and increase your finances if possible.
Like I said I tell everyone this when I hear stories like yours but I struggle with motivation myself. Sometimes I can be my worst enemy. Hang in there.

Oh I also wanted to add one last point.
I heard a saying recently that said the best revenge is showing that person that you are happy. I really believe that but I also believe to not concentrate on the revenge part more about making yourself happy.