Lesbian Relationship Challenges Support Group

Not sure whats going on there but you always have an outlet here :) If your family is not the type to liten and give their input, then I am sorry for them. Some people keep their emotions to themselves and are detached with others. It isn't impossible to overcome that, so don't give up. If they are not able to give you what you need; listen without judgement, then by all means seek out others within the community there to lean on.

Best wishes.

It is absolutely normal and appropriate to desire encouragement and compassion from your partner or loved one. But if you cannot find it in them, then find it somewhere else. Like dodges said, DS is always here for you.

I am truly sorry that you did not get the support you deserve. Try really hard not to shut yourself off from your emotions. Your emotions don't go away and they can't stay bottled up forever. There are safe places out there, promise. Keep looking and don't give up.

You can certainly pm me if you want to.

Hearts,
Owl

It's important to have an outlet where you can feel safe to share your feelings and get support and perhaps advice or guidance. I am so sorry your family is not more supportive, but there is always here at DS where people are typically caring and nonjudgmental and willing to listen and lend a hand. You might also consider local support groups and maybe starting to volunteer and expand your social circle to people who have earned your trust and you feel like you can talk to. Take care and remember we're here for you!

Thank you all very much for your supportive words. Your advice is greatly appreciated. It's nice to know that sincere compassion still exists in the world, even if you must seek beyond your home to find it.

Saph....I understand what you are going through (or have gone through). My family is very self-involved. They have no time, nor interest in anything that I went through. Moreover, they would often belittle me afterwards.

My mother divorced my father, and now she is the only family I talk to (and that includes my brothers and sister). I distanced myself from them, and realized that I don't need them.

My partner is extremely supporting. A partner ought to be. You should be able to find comfort, support, and compassion in your partner. And often people have friends that fill this need as well.

However, if none of those things are available to you....we are here for you.

I have developed some strong friendships here on DS. You may find a like-minded person who will listen and share what you are going through.

That you tried to speak to your family speaks volumes. You were risking your heart. You made yourself vulnerable, and they didn't treat you with respect. Don't let that shut you down completely. There are many people who will listen and be supportive here.

Take care, honey....we are here.