Lesbian Relationship Challenges Support Group

HI lonely,

This is a great bunch of women here, so don't be afraid to come here and chat.
Are you getting out and getting active? Hobbies, volunteering classes?
The only way to get to know people is to make yourself available. And not to downplay the importance of online communities, but sometimes they do little to squelch a physical loneliness. We all need "real" people in our lives. What are your interests?

I agree with suzy. To meet and potentially date other GLBTQQ people...you've got to hang out where they are! Join some organizations.

And you can message me anytime you need to talk. Or just post a thread like you did.

Hearts,
Owl

my interests are, talking on the phone, being on the computer, writing poems, talking to girls(duh!) lol um........ trying to write novels, just writing in general. i love kids and animals. i'm not religious. i love to volunteer.

Dude im with you fer real. i havent had like a real relationship with a girl just hookups and i hate that. i myself wanna girl too and its hard as fuck. in my town we dont have tht gsa or glbt groups around..... hit me up whenev.

I'm totally in the same boat you are. I have a great job a great farm and have been single for 13 months. I don't get it. I started getting out and doing more things in hope of finding someone. So my advice is get outside, go to coffee shops, take a class. It will eventually happen.

hey everyone! well, i'm still lonely. i know, it doesnt happen overnight. but, i wish it would! i'm so tired of not having any1 to talk to on the phone, or in person, or any of that! what am i going to do? HELP!!

I think the comments here are right on! You have lots of interests and things to do, but they are all very insular and solitary. You really need to get out and meet people. That doesn't mean in the first week you will find a true friend, but it will open up your circle of contacts. I highly recommend volunteering, maybe some exercise classes. Join a political party, help with gardening in a community garden. Reach out to the disabled, to people who need help with English as a Second Language. If you are so inclined there are many ways to meet new friends, but you have to push yourself out of the loneliness box to do it.

Lonely,
There are a great group of people here but you need to get out into your local community to meet people. And the best way to meet people is by well, not trying! Go out and enjoy the local events, like others have suggested volunteering, taking classes, if you are religious try a new church (Unitarian is usually very gay friendly), peruse the local bookstores, cafes, check for Meetup groups in your area (www.meetup.com) and focus on making new friends. The relationship part will develop naturally as you make connections and get to know people with common interests. Your personality will shine through!