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I can't get this girl out of my mind!
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I have a dilemma and i REALLY need help.....
So i was just recentally partially hospitalized fer depression and other problems and the people in my group who were really cool. But there was this one specific girl who right after i met i said to myself, that girl is going to be my girlfriend one day. She's into everything i'm into, shes cute, shes funny, kind of reserved which i LOVE, and i feel warm and protective when im around her. We talk almost every night on fbook and im getting like mixed signals from her. my last day of group she hugged me SO tight and that night when we talked she kept saying what am i gonna do without you tomorrow and im like ull live and shes like no die. sometimes she completly shuts me down when i flirt with her and sometimes she goes along with it. she constantly tells me im awesome and amazing and one time i was joking with her and i said sucks we'll never see eachother again and she said no we will id die if i nvr saw you again. idk if shes just being nice or shes into me and i need to knoe, its like killing me. Help! Posted on 11/06/09, 07:11 pm |
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Why don't you just ask? 
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cuz itll be awkward and i dont think i could handle tht
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Well...in your own words, "it's killing you".
Just talking to her is the absolute easiest and fastest way to find out. Tell her you are getting mixed signals and you want to clear the air. She might say no, I'm just a flirt...but she might say OMG what the heck took you so long!? It's completely up to you to decide what to do. But say something or die? Seems rather simple doesn't it? My fiance had the same problem as you. Imagine what would have happened if she didn't wake me up at midnight, get me out of a dead sleep to tell me she liked me...we would have both had completely different lives. We would have missed out on the most fulfilling relationship either of us have every had, she wouldn't have followed me 1300mi across the country, I wouldn't have moved out of my parents house...not to mention we would have missed out on all that sex! lol I'm just saying. At least if you get turned down, you won't have to live with wondering "what if?" Good Luck, whichever you decide. Hearts, Owl
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Thanks so much dude that helps a lot.
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