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My husband Shane and myself been getting notes that are racist being put on our doors and garage doors. It's been going on for a while about maybe over two weeks or so. Some of them were referred to my husband being called a nigger lover or a fucking asshole nigger lover. And some notes have said like one recently saying that niggers need to die. As you may have figured out by now, Shane is white and I'm black. Actually, I'm part black and hispanic and native american. We also have a daughter who is almost four months old. The police says they cannot do a lot at this time because the letters were touched by us as well as the ignorant bastard who did the shit in the first place. Our landlord told us to use gloves next time, so our fingerprints wo'nt be on them. She wants to know who is doing it because if it's a tenant of hers', she wants to put them out immediately!! What do you folks think about this racism bullshit around here?
Posted on 08/08/09, 07:08 pm
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Reply #1 - 08/09/09  2:42pm
" I have some questions. How long have you lived there? Have you had a problem with any neighbors recently that might be doing this? Did anyone new move in recently who might be the asshole doing this? Do you have an idea what time of day or night these notes are being put there?
For the life of me I cannot understand why some people act that way, think that way and feel that level of hate for people they don't even know. Sick and twisted is what I think and I'd be more then a little concerned for my families safety. Most of the time these people are just sick jerks who get some kind of thrill out of doing these things and even though it is the height of cowardness they think they are really something but once in awhile they can be truely pscyho and dangerous, that whole shit about niggers must die would make me wonder if this might be one of those cases. I know the cops are basicaly useless on things like this, you need to be watchful and careful and if you have friends in the area maybe they can help you keep an eye out for this walking disease. Good luck on finding them. "
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Reply #2 - 08/16/09  10:34pm
" Hey!!! bs!!!! like totally- keep the evidence and talk to the FEDS honey!!

You already spoke to the police- most local cops do not care- unless they have a much larger non-white recruits already there in good positions

For they could take your fingerprints and his to distinguish things

also- if the type of note the way it is written is already in the FED database then there u go!!!

And if that does not work- as a last resort have the Landlord send a letter to all the tenants informing them of the situation- asking for help, and letting them know she does not agree-

The reason i say last resort because- usually the people just get more quiet about it- and there will not be help for u then- for either of u

Cause it will not stop- someone stupid and bold enuf to leave letters is EXTREMELY dangerous

So, please be on your p's and q's- any children you have need to be informed of the danger- since it is here- and they are usually the easier targets

If it was my woman- who is white mixed with Native American- i'd wouldn't have to worry about what i would do- i would have to sit on her literally- to stop her from finding them herself.

To me- all partners should be this way

Around me they wouldn't dare- and they are scared of u obviously- so be extremely careful- for i do not want you jumped one day- nor him- none of u

Take care- Birthers are on the rise- the verbal attacks on the president relate to all of us who are interracial for one reason or another "
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Reply #3 - 08/27/09  4:03pm
" This sounds bad people can be so ignorant. You should see if you can go above the local cops if not I'd be packing my bags. It would not be worth seeing any of you seriously getting hurt. You never know what a sick person will do. Just be safe Jezebella and I'm so sorry you all victims of such hate crimes. "
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Reply #4 - 09/01/09  5:13pm
" i went thru similar problems when i lived in a small town in PA. since i'm pretty tan all year round. they would piss on our door knobs in the winter so that it would freeze, throw mac n cheese on our house, spaghetti, eggs, rocks, etc, and call me every racial term known to man only bcuz they didn't know what race i really was. the school was 99.9% white and so was the neighborhood.

i used to get asked all the time, "what are you??" i am human like you and everyone else, assholes!!! and when i went active duty got stationed in VA, they used to ask me if i was part Mexican, because i wasn't "black, or white" as they say.

now i live in Hawaii, where i NEVER have to put up with harassment like that EVER again!!!! i'm so thankful everyone here is all mixed up in colors.... wewh! f**** that racist shit!!!

i agree with Wolfie.... cops probably don't care because they themselves are all white! "
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Reply #5 - 09/18/09  8:24pm
" That's shocking. I can't believe that. So sorry!!! "

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