Interfaith Relationships Support Group

at first: I am despeartely searchin for help or advice, so even if you dont have any answers maybe you know someone, a blog, forium or anything else where I could find help please, please let me know.

the story is: I am a Muslim woman living in Islamabad/Pakistan. I am truely in love with a white christian foreigner and he loves me. We are both in our end 20s and belong to the small educated community. My family is pretty liberal compared to Pakistani standards but this would be too much for them. Additionally I am livin in divorce, its in process but not finished yet so my muslim (ex-)husband still is in my identity card. my boyfriend and we are searchin for a safe way to live together in Islamabad until the end of the year. In this society neither a relationship without marriage is allowed, neither a relationship with a non-muslim man and of course this would be adultry on the paper right now. People are asking us all the time on the streets and everywhere else about our relationship and barely believe us when we tell them that we are only colleagues, they are not stupid. When we go into a hotel we always take two seperate rooms to safe the picture of the colleague story. We will stay together for whatever price but we dont want to die at least not pretty soon(this is a reason to be killed here and I am not joking happens quite often here and the courts and society give a shit about it as they are thinking we deserve it). I am grateful for every answer, help, recommendation, comment or experience, as the situation is serious and we are risking our lives right now for staying together as we love each other.
Posted on 03/23/09, 11:03 am