Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
This board is made up of people dealing with infidelity in their life. Its mainly inhabited by the betrayed spouses/significant others.
Because of the pain experienced by the betrayed partners, posts made by cheaters who feel or express no remorse/guilt can act as triggers that cause anger and frustration and often receive very strong, emotional, or negative replies.
If you are unwilling to express remorse/guilt, or are not ready to receive replies that show you the pain that cheating causes your loved one ... for you own emotional well being this might not be the board for you.
There is a member-created group on this site specifically for people who are the cheaters. There is another for the "other people". You can find these groups by using the search function in DS.
Cheaters Anonymous - Focused on the cheater but has betrayed in the group. There are strong rules about the expectation of respectful behavior by the betrayed spouses/SO's.
OM OW Are People Too - a support group for the other person in the affair.
Since DS does not allow sticky posts, if this topic is valuable, then just bump it once in a while.
Because of the pain experienced by the betrayed partners, posts made by cheaters who feel or express no remorse/guilt can act as triggers that cause anger and frustration and often receive very strong, emotional, or negative replies.
If you are unwilling to express remorse/guilt, or are not ready to receive replies that show you the pain that cheating causes your loved one ... for you own emotional well being this might not be the board for you.
There is a member-created group on this site specifically for people who are the cheaters. There is another for the "other people". You can find these groups by using the search function in DS.
Cheaters Anonymous - Focused on the cheater but has betrayed in the group. There are strong rules about the expectation of respectful behavior by the betrayed spouses/SO's.
OM OW Are People Too - a support group for the other person in the affair.
Since DS does not allow sticky posts, if this topic is valuable, then just bump it once in a while.
A thoughtful post, why don't you adhere to your own philosophy?
And um, I did not see you, gottagoodman, as a moderator, admin or anyone except a cheater, who can speak to this discussion board.
Just my observation as a newbie :)
I also don't see you, 'gottagoodman' as an admin or a person who can speak authoritively about the sites conception.
Prove me wrong, but I was under the impression as a newbie that this site was about Infidelity - in general.
There is also a "Betrayeds New to Board" post asking betrayed people to avoid hateful posts about cheaters.
These posts exist for a reason.
I was the original writer of this "Cheaters" thread. Gotta rewrote it. If you want to be mad at someone, I guess I should be the one to bear the brunt of your animus.
No one thinks they are the moderator or admin. The board members do attempt to ameliorate the worst affects of behavior and conflict. In this way the board remains useful rather than becoming a pit of hate and anger.