What is Infertility
Infertility is the inability to naturally conceive a child or the inability to carry a pregnancy to term. There are many reasons why a couple may not be able to conceive, or may no...
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Its been a while since I've been on for a chat. I'm going through hell at the moment after 3 years of trying and a diagnosis of unexplained infertility. I have to have a BMI under 30 (which i'm at 33 now) by April before our NHS will pay for one round of IVF and I will just be hitting 34 then. My marriage is going down the pan as hubby is being very unsupportive and we've been having huge rows, he pushes me about but has never hit, just threatened to. He has said some awful things too like 'you can't even give me a child' and I'm now seriously questioning if I want a child with him anymore......
The other pressure I have is that we had agreed to move to the states (he's from there) in a year and a half but with the fertility treatment issue i have suggest we postpone this for another year which he won't do so he's trying to bully me into going basically. He's also threaened to take half the money I received from the sale of my flat that I was going to have to use all of it to buy a house in the states, not sure I want to do that anymore either........feel really insecure, alone and threatened. Posted on 11/06/09, 02:11 pm |
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first of all he should not be touching you at all.... it starts with pushing and then turns in to more. I would strongly rethink things all together because you don't want to raise a baby where there is abuse involved. Of course it's hard dealing with IF and wifes and husbands do fight but if mine ever pushed me around that would be the end of it. I am so sorry you are going through this its hard enough going through IF let alone to be in a relationship that is abusive is horrible. If you want to chat message me. 
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it sound like you could really use a friend--I'm so sorry you are going thru all of this but you are not alone. Check out this website:
www.wishtobeamommy.com
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