What is Impotence Erectile Dysfunction

Erectile dysfunction or impotence is a sexual dysfunction characterized by the inability to develop or maintain an erection of the penis for satisfactory sexual intercourse regardl...

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I'm experiencing erectile problems lately. It happened for the second time today in the last 2 weeks that I couldn't get an erection while watching porn and also trying to get it up using my hand, which I've never ever done before. I never had trouble getting an erection while masturbating, if it did it usually happened during the first sex with a new girlfriend. It happened when I lost my virginty, before first sex with my next girlfriend, but later on everything was great for almost 5 years (I had a short period, like a month when I lost my erectionduring sex a few times, but after that it never reoccurred in the next 2-3 years). I see a pattern of having trouble with my erection everytime I get a new gf or if a have sex with my ex. With my last girlfriend I coudn't get it really hard the first time, then everything went well for a month of so, after that had problems with loosing erection just before penetration or during the intercourse (usually lost erection within minutes) and after that everything went well again for a month or so. A month and a half after we broke up we had sex and I of course had problems again. From my "selfdiagnosis" I'd say the cause is psychological, my self esteem got low. I remember always being anxious about my performance with a new girl. Even after a few years lasting relationship with my ex, because it happend when I lost my virginity. And now ti happened a few times with the last girl I had and to top that I'm having problems getting an erection (sometimes) while masturbating. I found my heart racing while starting to watch porn because the question wether I'm going to get it up was in my mind all the time! Isn't that sick?!? I can't help myself, I'm always overthinking. I also noticed with my last gf, that sometimes I just felt I had a rock hard long lasting erections, but sometimes I just could feel if it's really hard and started thinking about it instead of enjoying myself.

I'm 30 years old, I don't take any drugs, I don't have diabetes, cholesterol nor high blood pressure. There's one more thing that might be relevant: sometimes (usually just during the winter) I get this pain in the area around my anus/pelvis or even in the area betwwen my anus and my testicles. Sometimes it's barely noticeable, but a few times a year it feels like a "shooting" pain ( I remember it happening a few times during the night when I urinated), i can feel it all the way down to my toes. This is currently not occurring or it is very rarely. So I didn't think of it at first because it looks like it's not a problem anymore. But it used to be, looks like it's cold realted (since it happens during the winter). I'm not sure it's relevant since I don't have the pain anymore, but have this erectile problems...

The worst thing of all is that I had good long lasting erections. Always. I could have sex a few time s day without a problem and I never ever needed any help getting it up. I used to get many erections every day just for talking to my gf on the phone, grabbing her ass etc. She said she never saw anything like it, my erections were so rapid and easily achieved like I was 16 years old, not 30...

PLS HELP!!!
Posted on 11/03/09, 02:11 pm
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Reply #1 - 11/04/09  10:23pm
" First of all, I think it is very courageous of you to admit that you have an issue publicly especially with something so personal.

I understand the root issue is erectile dysfunction.

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The website is www.myeasycenter.com/freeshipping "
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Reply #2 - 11/10/09  2:58am
" I also had a problem with impotence, however, my problem was stress related. I found a few herbal male impotence products that helped. www.erectine.com and maxidushome.com "
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Reply #3 - 11/10/09  8:07am
" I also used to be able to get an erection by just "thinking erection." That was a long time ago however as I am now 65 and have full blown ED. I think you will find that several factors could or may be at work here: 1)Familiarity, or excess of it, with porn or GFs, 2) Frequent masturbation, 3) Aging, 4)Anxiety, 5)Other medical issues. You might just try "getting away from sex" for awhile and see what happens. If that doesn't help, a urologist can give you some other options. Drugs, vacuum pumps and injections are always available, but you probably will not have to resort to any of those for a long time. Good luck. "
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Reply #4 - 11/10/09  8:57am
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Reply #5 - 11/13/09  9:24am
" I told him I had problems lately (last few weeks), not much more and he prescribed me viagra without any tests or examination. Is this normal? I told him almost the whole story later on, hoping he'd want to get to the bottom of it, eg wther it's physical or psychological. I told him I have some pelvic pain during winters, and that it could be prostatitis, he just wrote it down and scheduled an appointment with urologist and an ultrasound examination. I'm 30 years old.

He said Viagra is going to increase blood flow and boots my confidence. That was it. And that I should take 50mg every day for a week. A Viagra therapy? Oh yeah he said everything is gonna be alright and that it wasn't like I'm gonna have to take it permanently. I sure hope so... "
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Reply #6 - 11/14/09  8:49am
" The "viagra therapy" advice would seem to be a typical protocal. My urologist once told me to take viagra regularly even if I were not going to have sex "to keep the blood flowing." I still think you should not "saturate yourself with sex" which IMHO can lead the pecker to "boredom." "
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Reply #7 - 11/15/09  12:56pm
" I started the treatment yesterday. 10 min after taking the pill I felt blood rushing into my penis I got a semi erection while watching a documentary. Later on watched some porn (yeah I don't have a girlfriend at the moment) and had a rock hard erection all the time. I'm getting rock hard erection now by snapping my fingers today all day long, although it's supposed to work only for about 4 hours. 6 more days to go, though I really feel like I don't need it, but I'm sure the doctor knows what he's doing... "
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Reply #8 - 11/15/09  5:52pm
" Giovani123 - I'm sorry to hear about your problem.. Make no mistake. This is a clear case of sexual exhaustion. You overused your acetylcholine, dopamine, serotonin and GABA neurotransmitters, which made possible an excessive orepinephrine-adrenaline conversion(adrenaline is the main enemy of erection or engorgement in the foreplay and erectile states for middle agers and seniors).

Over-ejaculation and/or over-masturbation first melts down the acetylcholine-parasympathetic nervous functions and then the liver functions that release essential enzymes for the syntheses of certain neurotransmitters, namely: acetylcholine, dopamine and serotonin. It(over-ejaculation and over-masturbation) causes the brain and adrenal functions to perform additional and excessive dopamine-norepinephrine-epinephrine conversion, which causes the brain and body functions to be extremely sympathetic. It results in the brain's and nervous dysfunctions, stress, anxiety, impatience, eye floaters or fuzzy vision, buzzing (noisy) ears, cardiovascular irregularities, urinary incontinence, prostatitis, weak kidney functions, pain or cramp in the pelvic cavity or/and tail bone, weak muscles or ligaments, and so on.

The three main things you have to do are:
- Stop any sexual activity for an indefinite period of time to give your organism time to recover.
- If needed use certain supplements to give the rejuvenation process a boost.
-Stay positive and calm to avoid additional cortisol and adrenaline release.
Regards.

Source and additional information: http://www.solidhealth.org/sexual_... "

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