What is Impotence Erectile Dysfunction
Erectile dysfunction or impotence is a sexual dysfunction characterized by the inability to develop or maintain an erection of the penis for satisfactory sexual intercourse regardl...
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ive been with my boyfreind a while now and everythings been great, we recently moved in together and ive been really happy with him. our sex lifes always been really good, the best! untill recently. a few weeks ago he couldnt get an erection, i couldnt understand it because i usaully really turn him on and i dont consider myself unattractive. i got really defensive about him not getting an erection, had a few words to him and felt so shitty about not being able to turn my man on but i put it down to a one off. then it just kept happening all the time, but 90% of the time it will happen during intercourse or when im pleasuring him and i just dnt understand why! i ask him and he says he doesnt know why, he says he just thinks about his erection the whole time and then he just loses it! what does that say about me? this past few weeks ive began to feel so sexually unattractive, at the end of the day i feel like i cant satify my man, that what i do isnt nice enough or good enough for him. i just keep thinking if i was that attractive and sexy like he says he would be able to keep it up surely. i prob sound selfish but im getting so fed up. i cant understand why he can get an erection and then he loses it when hes inside me or something, what does that say about me.
it happened last night and just before it happened i looked at my stomach and thought it looked wobbly and gross and then 30 secs later he lost his erection so that just made me upset thinking he thought the same about my wobbly bits. i know it must be horrible for him but he cant care that much because ive told him to go see a doctor and have a chat but he hasnt, maybe hes embarressed but surely he can overcome that for the sake of our relationship because this is driving a wedge between us and i cant feel like this for the rest of my life no matter how much i love him. i feel undesired, un sexy and bloody fat and ugly. i just dont understand how everythings just changed and its driving me insane. im sorry if i do sound selfish im just telling from a womans point of view how its making me feel. i wanna help him but he would rather not listen and continue to push me out so i dont know what to do. im so angry all the time Posted on 10/25/07, 04:10 pm |
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It is unlikely you are the cause. I am assuming he is not abusing alcohol or street drugs. It could be anyting from lack of testosterone to worrying about something. I suggest a trip to a doctor for a full physical including a blood workup. If there are no physical problems, the next stop would be a sex therapist. 
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Psychological just slow down and don't make him feel bad. Have him get his mind off himself and focus on you such oral sex etc.
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There is alot of good advice above this. Stress at having to keep an erection will doom it's failure. How do you talk to your man? Do you speak with anger in your voice or with empathy? You need alot of patience when dealing with this problem and if it is not a mental one then there is medicine out there that will help but then he will have to see a doctor. Good luck!
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I feel you. I am in the same boat. I thought he must be tired of me, I am fat, unattractive, we have been together for twenty yrs(high school sweethearts)is that why? I blamed me. It started from a quick shot to nothing at all. I became frustrated, always getting started an never finishing....brutal.
I agree with bobinmaine. I thought communication was the key so I started speaking about what I felt about the whole thing. MY IDEA OF COMMUNICATION was shooting daggers at his ego. I would speak out of emotion and became sarcastic at times, even mean. His problem wasn't medical( I knew why he was having problems). HE began to make excuses to get not to have sex(too tired, etc...)It was nonexistent. The best part of being married was the sex and I became celibate. I changed. when he would lose it during sex I wouldn't get upset or ask many why questions. He began to down himself I have to stop it, because mental is very important when keeping an erection. I would tell him to keep going it will come back and it usually does. He has told me over and over it isn't me, it just wont work and I decided to believe him. Things have improved. Change the way you react to it. Think it but don't say it when you can. And if it continues he needs to see a doc.
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Viagra was the first pill to be introduced to the market. Side effects of Viagra include: priapism, severe hypotension, myocardial infarction, ventricular arrhythmias, sudden death, stroke and enhanced intraocular pressure. The common side effects consist of sneezing, headache, flushing, dyspepsia, prolonged erections, palpitations, and photophobia. Visual changes including blurring of vision and a curious bluish tinge which have been reported in studies.http://www.euromepro.org/
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The common side effects consist of sneezing, headache, flushing, dyspepsia, prolonged erections, palpitations, and photophobia. Visual http://www.vanusapro.com/ changes including blurring of vision and a curious bluish tinge which have been reported in studies. http://www.euromepro.org/
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