What is Impotence Erectile Dysfunction
Erectile dysfunction or impotence is a sexual dysfunction characterized by the inability to develop or maintain an erection of the penis for satisfactory sexual intercourse regardl...
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I tend to go on a bit, so sorry. With that out of the way, look I have been a member of this site for srroung 8 months or so without posting and I appologise. I tend not to talk or deal with my ED because doing so causes me great pain. I have been attending a clinic for arround 4-5 months now, they are truly wonderfull& amazing people. They listen to me crying& sobbing, and complaining how much life isnt fair, then some how send me home that day with renewd hope thats its not over and itll be ok. They are trying me out with injections at the moment, they work, well sort of but my confidence is so low I dont belive that it is a real erection. I have it in my head that I just cant do anytning sexualy at all, I would give anything to have a woman in my life to be with. I am a realy sensitive person and feel quite emotional just typing this, Making love to a woman isnt a goal or a teenage milestone as some men might see it. I feel its meant to be with "the one", flowers the next morning beside her bed you name it. Many of the guys I know & work with treat women like a toilet, and that hurts me, I could never be like that even if I was sexualy confident. I feel not bad right now but tomorow morning that could all change, its weird I was at a wedding 5 days ago. It was a friend of mine who ive known for nearly 20 years now, all day I could see from the service right until the reception just how happy they both were. I would like to say I was happy for them and wish I was, but instead all I could do was look at my own life and see how empty and pathetic it realy is. I swear I felt so bad I just wanted to stop living, you see at 32 I have a big house of my own, nice car, farm&reasonable job. So whats to complain about right?, these are just possesions, I would give anything just to feel the love and warmth of a woman& give her the same in return.
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I do know how you feel. Sex is so important and sometimes that is all we want. I feel the way you do when I see others doing this and I can't with my husband. I do not want to put anyone down for this. It is not your fault, just like it is not my husband's fault. Unfortunately none of us are born perfect and we will have something that is not easy to deal with. Some people may have this problem and another person will have another problem and we just have to learn how to deal with these problems and learn to accept them. I think it is great that you are seeking help for this problem. This is the first step. None of us are going to feel confident in all areas. I am not confident in lots of things and others are not confident in this type of thing. Life does not suck but this does and I understand how you can feel bad about this. If I was able to do this with my husband I would be so happy. I know it isn't his fault but it is just a frustrating thing to deal with. I hope you will feel better, I know your feelings, I hope I was of some help to you. I think it was good just to be able to share our frustrations. I am with you on this most definately. Thank you for writing this post. 
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More thoughts I had with this. This is not a problem that you can help so I would hope that you will not get down on yourself for having this problem. You are taking the right steps in taking care of this problem and I really admire this. Please do not feel ashamed. We are not perfect. We are not born perfect. No one is perfect and you should not feel ashamed, you are taking steps. Hopefully this will work. If you have to take medicine for this to work, why feel ashamed, you have to find a partner who can accept this. There are so many good things about you, you should not feel ashamed. There is nothing wrong with you, it is just something you have to deal with and it is great that you are working on this. You should feel proud about this.
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I share you're frustrations, I wish I knew someone in person going through the same thing we are. That would be so healing for both I'm sure. How can anyone help if they're not going through it?
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Do not cry or be embarrassed anymore because it is treatable. You can be normal again just by taking a pill when needed.
I had it 5 years ago. I told my girl for 3 yrs and she left me. I met my wife 2 months later in grad school. I started taking my pill since then. Read my JOURNAL. I am happily married and have 3 kids in 5 years. I don't even know what is ED anymore. I get my pills from http://www.allbrandgeneric.com. No written prescription needed if you don't have doctor. Do yourself a favor. Turn your cry to smile. Order 10 or 20 pills of viagra or Cialis then see what happen if you take one the first night. I call it the magic pill. My doctor says over dose can cause upset stomach or poor sight so take it when needed. If I have 3 kids in 5 years, yes you can. Life is great with me and my wife.
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