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Erectile dysfunction or impotence is a sexual dysfunction characterized by the inability to develop or maintain an erection of the penis for satisfactory sexual intercourse regardl...

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how to suggest trying meds to my fiance?
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i have been with my fiance for few months now. He is a great man. But the problem is not being able to get erect or if it happens sustain it long enough, so far in a four months relationship we maanged to have sex twice only.. and mostly attempt then stop for couple of other times, he is fine when i preform oral sex on him,, though he seems to have some difficulties then as well , but way better than sex itself, he is relaying on preforming oral sex on me, which is great to be honest,, but i want him happy,, i want to see him as happy as i saw him when we made love that time,
now that i think about it, he might have used meds or not, i am not sure, a strip of meds feel of his pocket one night when we were having dinner out, and his face turned all the rainbow colors,, i just pretnded i did not notice
i dunno
he is pretty open about addressing the issue, i mean he tells me about his doctor's appointmenst and such, and what he thinks, that his body is not in synch with his desire but the issue is, i think ,, i want to ask him or suggest at least using meds like cialis or viagra even,, i want him to expreince that joy always
how can i approach the subject??
btw he is 53 yo
Posted on 04/07/09, 02:04 pm
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Reply #1 - 04/07/09  5:30pm
" I think you should tell him what you just said here, "suggest at least using meds like cialis or viagra even,, i want him to expreince that joy always".
I don't know what man would object to loving persuasion like that. Obvoiusly he wants to get better also since he is seeing a doctor about the problem.
I hope this helps. "
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Reply #2 - 04/09/09  6:56pm
" @ markat425: thank you,i will try that approach as last resort. he said he needs more time to lose weight as his doctor adviced him and if things keep going this bad, then there must be other options "
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Reply #3 - 04/09/09  7:22pm
" I would suggest taking him to a hormone replacement clinic and have them test his testosterone. Its more than likely the culprit of his difficulties. It was my H's problem and now with treatment its pretty amazing. "

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