What is Impotence Erectile Dysfunction
Erectile dysfunction or impotence is a sexual dysfunction characterized by the inability to develop or maintain an erection of the penis for satisfactory sexual intercourse regardl...
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I am crazy in love with a man who has ED. I have been talking with him for some time now and during our conversations and time together I started to pick up on a "problem" Well 2 days ago we finally had sex....well kind of...He plesured me orally and gave me all the attention I could ever hope for except he never obtained an erection. :-(
I tried giving him the best oral sex I could give and he didn't get hard!!! I was shocked! He didn't let me try for long and while we had sex he did ejaculate, but It never got fullly erect :-( My question is this..... for men with ED does oral sex still feel pleasurable? And I will take any information that you think may be helpful. Since we are just newly dating, he hasn't shared with me any information pertaing to his condition so I don't know for how long or what may be the cause. I can tell you that he is 46 and doesn't take any medication and is in great physical condition. He doesn't smoke, drink or use drugs. I would appreciate any info anyone would share. Posted on 04/05/09, 10:04 pm |
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Can tell you that H only gets an erection (w/o meds) during oral stimulation. Our 'regular' sex life is non existent. 
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Due to the fact you say you are in love, may I suggest you ask him when was the last time , if ever, he has had a prostate exam? Most men think that they don't need that done until they are "old". After noticing my husband getting up alot to urinate at nite, with a start-stop weak stream, adding the ever increasing lack of a good erection, I insisted it was time to talk to the doctor..he had prostate cancer-don't want to scare you- it was advancing quickly & required immediate treatment. Many times prostate cancer, if caught early, can be completely erraticated-there are many types of treatments now. It's just a suggestion..we tried the ED pills at first and it wasted time. He is ok now, cancer wise, the Erections are ..excuse the wording.. touch & go. We are working on it. Btw, he was 49 when we got the diagnosis. That was 4 years ago. Good luck, I hope he will talk to you about it, maybe letting him know your concern stems from love...
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I too have erectile dysfunction - I can get it up sometimes, but its hard work!
However, an erection is not necessary for a man to experience pleasure. Oral does wonders for me - its a shame that my wife now refuses to perform oral on me. She used to be ok with it, but now, she thinks its dirty and disgusting.
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