What is Impotence Erectile Dysfunction
Erectile dysfunction or impotence is a sexual dysfunction characterized by the inability to develop or maintain an erection of the penis for satisfactory sexual intercourse regardl...
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I am crazy in love with a man who has ED. I have been talking with him for some time now and during our conversations and time together I started to pick up on a "problem" Well 2 days ago we finally had sex....well kind of...He plesured me orally and gave me all the attention I could ever hope for except he never obtained an erection. :-(
I tried giving him the best oral sex I could give and he didn't get hard!!! I was shocked! He didn't let me try for long and while we had sex he did ejaculate, but It never got fullly erect :-( My question is this..... for men with ED does oral sex still feel pleasurable? And I will take any information that you think may be helpful. Since we are just newly dating, he hasn't shared with me any information pertaing to his condition so I don't know for how long or what may be the cause. I can tell you that he is 46 and doesn't take any medication and is in great physical condition. He doesn't smoke, drink or use drugs. I would appreciate any info anyone would share. Posted on 04/05/09, 10:04 pm |
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I can only speak for myself. I also do not get an erection. I have been able to for four or five years and sex for me is still very satisfying. My condition has also alowed my partner(s) and I to experiement with toys. That opened a few new doors.
Oral and digital sex bring me to orgasm and ejaculation which feels just as good to me (maybe better) than it ever did. I also get sexually excited watching my partner reach multiple orgasms, knowing I am helping her. My current partners tell me they are fully sexually satisfied with our sex. At his age, I would suggest he try one of the erection disorder pills. They worked for me for a while, then stopped. 
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I too am an old guy (70). I had ed after a heart attack and prostate removal about 10 years ago. I could rarely get an erection the first year. But yes, I could experience an orgasm even though I could not ejaculate. My wife and I used a very powerful vibrator then, still do. Then we tried a penis vacuum pump. It worked most of the time. But still I had to maintain her orgasms orally. After a while and with the help of viagra, we now enjoy solid erections most of the time we have sex (usually twice a week).
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Thought I might add that my wife gets orgasms either by my stimulating her orally, by penis [penitration, and by orally pleasing me.
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Thank you for all your shared information.
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one out of every 2 men over the age of 40 will develop ed to some extent. Have him request a free sample of viagra from his doctor. I bet that will help. It did me. :)
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Yea...as soon as he talks to me about it I will definately suggest it, but he seems to be thinking I didn't notice. I might have to wait until the next time we are intimate to bring it up myself. I haven't found the right opprotunity. I think he thinks that him giving me oral sex is enough, don't get me wrong it is GREAT, but I want to feel him....
This is a cruel disorder and I truly feel for all the men going through it but after I read all day about it, I am hopeful BTW...check out this excellent article for anyone who is new to this disorder http://www.emedicinehealth.com/scr...
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Kall -
I am also in a loving relationship with a man who has ED. He is 63 and his ED is the result of drinking and diabetes... While our sexual intimacy is very satisfying, I feel a little disconnected; I also do not relish the prospect of *only* providing his orgasms through oral sex... I need to know: For a man with ED, is oral sex enough?
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In answer to np's question, I am fully satisfied by oral.
And for kall, you may not understand this at all but I cannot tell if I am or am not erect. If I am not looking or not touching it, I can't tell the difference. Quite honestly, if I am not watching, I can't tell if my partner isusing her tongue or fingers to stimulate me. Maybe he thinks you did not notice, but I wonder if he noticed.
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Hi All,
Am new to the site. I am 65 and had a TURP four years ago for BPH. Was gradually getting ED before that for which I used viagra. Fairly effective before the TURP; doesn't sustain erection for intercourse anymore. Tried cialis and levitra also;no better. Urologist prescribed vacuum pump recently and I have been practicing getting erections. Have not tried intercourse yet, but it would seem that its going to work okay because the pump definitely blows that puppy up. Oddly, I have "bubble" on the bottom of my penis toward the base; almost like a hernia. Haven't told the urologist about this yet. Anyone else had this phenomenom?
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Oral Will have him ejaculate. If you're Ok with what he gave you without penetration, then perhaps you both can make goods couple.
As a male. I don't know the importance of penetration for females. But If you will some point need that(Penetration), then I will agree with Bobinmaine. "Let him get few viagra sample from his doctor." If he's ashame to see a doctor, you can get him a surprise gift from www.allbrandgeneric.com . This is your call. If he's fine and you are fine with what both of you get, then stick with it and save money on pills.
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