Hodgkin's Lymphoma Support Group

Here is my story. I met this incredible guy last year on his birthday. Didn't see much of him but found him on Facebook. Found out we have a lot of the same friends. Started to talk to him on Facebook and then it lead to texting. We agreed to see each other. It was love at first sight. We would talk everyday and I mean everyday. Got to see him then and there but I knew he was the one. Perfect for me and I believed he felt the same. He told me three weeks in that he had beaten HL once back in '08. I saw the scares and he told me how much it changed him. I was sad for him that he had to go through all that but happy that he survived. A month ago everything was fine between us. He was happy to talk to me and to see me. But these last two weeks have been different. He doesn't want to see me or really talk to me. His excuse is that he is busy with his new job or family. Then last Thursday I am supposed to go see him and he doesn't answer my calls or even text me until the next day. He tells me that he went to the doctors and they told him that his cancer is back. On Friday he tells me that he can't do this anymore. On Sunday the 13th he tells me that Its over between us. I wanted to know why. he just tells me that its him not me. I told him how much I care about him and how I want to be there to support him through all this. That I will not leave his side. He tells me to just stop and to let it go or he will change his number. I am so hurt by this. I don't understand how he could go from loving to hating me in three days. Also, he will not tell me anything about what is going on with his cancer or what his doctors say. He just completely blocked me out. I am heart broken and don't know what to do.
Posted on 02/15/11, 05:32 pm