Healthy Sex Support Group

What are your plans right now? Is it a dinner date out, or is it a romantic dinner for two at home? What does he like? What really turns him on? Is there something you can do that really drives him crazy?

One piece of advice: let go and relax.....get a little crazy...do something that is out of character for you..something that you know he really wants. As far as confidence.....if you don't have it, fake it for the night...be confident and sassy, be bold...don't think about it, just do it.

Have a great anniversary.....let us know how it goes

thanks Rob, thats just the confidence boost I needed......

another friend said exactly the same thing... do something out of character...
if eating dinner in front of the tv is a "romantic" dinner then yeah, thats prob what it will be..... hahahaha

hubby works from home and never leaves the house... so i wish i could prepare something really nice....... thats why i need more ideas... cause I am stuck......

For our 4th anniversary I did something really out of character for me. We were going out to eat and I wore an extremely short tight dress with fish net stockings and heels. While we were eating I would tease him just a little...but, then on the way home...I stripped in the car and started fondling him. We barely made it home, but when we did...it was some of the best sex we had had since we had been married. I can understand the issue with self confidence....I faked it BIG time that night. It really helped me relax and shortly after that I was pregnant with our youngest.

So, just relax and have fun!!!!

That was a memorable anniversary....one I'll never forget, Red....you were hot that night for sure!

Daisy, if your palns are to be at home, try this: serve dinner nude! Maybe find an apron, some fishnet stockings and high heels....nothing else! That should get things going nicely!

If you're gonna be home....then have a candle lit dinner with some seductive music playing in the background. That should also help with the confidence. You could wear something barely revealing...just enough to tempt him....that should heat things up.

I wish I could serve dinner NAKED..... I would LOVE To.... but confidence....

ok, how about some ideas if I can get him to take me out??? without being tacky (i own a business in this small town).......

Hmmm....let's see....dress as sexy as you feel comfortable with....revealing but not trashy...find a nice, quiet place to eat that you both love...get a booth or table with privacy....some under-the-table fondling to get his motor revved....tease him all evening, keep him hot and bothered....if you feel comfortable enough, let him touch you as well....if you wear a dress or skirt, wear skimpy panties or none at all, give him access....whatever you feel would get him fired up yet preserve your public image, you know?
Once you are alone, let him take charge...make him feel like he's the king, the stud, the man. Give yourself to him totally, get lost in the moment....and above all else, have a great time!

Oh yeah, the whipped cream thing...definitely!

get under the table while he is eating ..have ur DESSERT be4 dinner. :)

Personally, Annie...I don't think that getting her "dessert" under the table would be very tactful seeing that she mentioned that she owns a business in her small town. I think that a little flirting, touching and a lot of eye contact would be really hot. You can say a lot with your eyes without saying a word. Dress as sexy as you feel comfortable with and just let the evening go where it goes. Have fun and happy anniversary!!!