Healthy Sex Support Group

Maybe it's because I am really tired ... but the ALL CAPS thing is giving me a headache right now. I cannot seem to read your question because of it feels like you are shouting. Sorry!

Just do what comes natural. Do what feels good to you and you can be sure it feels good to him to. Don't ever think he don't like what your doing.

Sometimes I feel a little awkward being on top as well. Think it just makes me feel too exposed, somehow.
Although I do like straddling the guy when he's sitting upright on the couch, that feels more intimate to me and more comfortable. Maybe you can experiment and find a few other on top positions that feel right for you.

Some women have body image problems they dislike that position as they are right there exposed to the masses.

If that is an issue I would suggest some sexy outfit you like, pull the panties aside and climb on top and rock his world.

If it is the actual act, it really is not much different than any other sex, you need motion, after that the guy will be smiling no matter what happens.
Rock your hips back and forth. Lift and lower. Speed it up, slow it down, slight rocking to the sides.

Once your in that position and started, I would assume your partner will help direct you in the ways he likes it, just pay attention to what motions he is trying to achieve and try to help them along while still doing the motions you prefer.

Best of luck

You're very pregnant, girlie (something you didn't mention, silly) !! Wait until after the baby comes and see if things improve. It's got to be tiring being as far along as you are especially with all that extra weight. And for some women, it's hard to feel sexy with the big ol' belly!! Some men find it very arousing, however. It may be, for now, that being on top is not the most comfortable position for you anyway. Don't be afraid you'll hurt the baby-he's very well protected in there.

Use those hands on him with some erotic foreplay-a little warm body oil works wonders-get him close to the point that when you do try that top position, it won't take so much work and you won't get so worn out.

Think TRASHY!! Alot of sex is mental, not just physical.

What's the old saying, "Practice makes perfect." Don't give up, just keep on trying. You might also want to try the "Reverse Cowgirl" position (Woman on top, facing the guy's feet, not his face. Some women swear that position drives them absolutely CRAZY!!)