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So...I am not sure if I can talk about this yet.
But I am gonna be kind of general here and then later probably blog about what happened to me last nite....
I just wanna know who here is homophobic (and proud) and who here is against gay-bashing? If you are gay or bi has it ever happened to you?
I know that most people are strait and dont want to be hit on by the same sex. I get that....ok. But do you feel aggressive about it or is it just something you are....against?
So...yeah. Just wondering where people here stand on this.
Posted on 11/07/09, 01:11 pm
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Reply #1 - 11/07/09  1:33pm
" I'm bi les for relationships. And I've had people indirectly bash me back in high school. And I do not see the need for gay bashing. If you're a homophobe and all that is fine just don't act it out in violence or murder. Anyway that is where I stand. Have a nice day Brian.

Lexie "
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Reply #2 - 11/07/09  1:43pm
" Got no problems with gays or lesbians, or even bi Sexuals.

If I got hit on I would tell them I am straight and move on. If they persisted, then I would have an issue. But I have been to gay bars/clubs where I was one of maybe 10 people out of about 400 who were straight, got hit on a couple times, they accepted I was straight and never an issue. I actually found a gay bar more fun of a place to be because all the macho bullshit, slutty catty bitches, useless waitresses only going to the biggest tippers and ignoring the rest etc, all the crap of a regular club, doesn't seem to happen, or happen much at a gay bar. "
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Reply #3 - 11/07/09  2:12pm
" Am bi with preference for women as we all know. The only real person who ever had an issue with it was my dad but then again he had an issue with most of my life as it never was the life he had planned for me. As far as homphobics go they have no place in my life. "
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Reply #4 - 11/07/09  4:14pm
" I['m bi and have no homophbic issues at all...everyone should feel free to love whomever they choose and even just fuck whomever they feel good having sex with...so ....... lets party on "
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Reply #5 - 11/07/09  5:07pm
" I do not have a problem with it....it's not my thing personally, but then again many would probably not agree with the way I live my life either. People are free to live their lives in a way that makes them happy....if that is gay, bi, or straight, so what? I believe in living a happy, satisying life, and if you find someone that you can happily share your life with, why should it matter to others? "
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Reply #6 - 11/07/09  5:51pm
" Thanks....somehow I knew you guys would be more cool than some of the a**holes out there in the world. :) "
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Reply #7 - 11/07/09  7:21pm
" I have no problems with it at all and I'm as straight as can be, been hit on many times and I'm sure it will happen again, hell I work in the entertainment industry, ballet, plays, musicals...
I would say that any gayer then this is a gay bar, which I have been in when on tour with the Divas I worked with...
A person before anything else...Just like me. "
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Reply #8 - 11/07/09  7:45pm
" i have no problems with gay or lesbian "
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Reply #9 - 11/07/09  7:56pm
" As a person who embraces my feminine side I have a great deal of sympathy for the plight of gay people because like myself they almost have to be open minded by their attitude.

Like brian said I think you guys on HS are refreshingly open minded and I greatly enjoy being in this group.

Brian, by the way in case you did not know President Obama has just past a new anti gay bashing law see below.
http://www.cnn.com/2009/POLITICS/1... "
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Reply #10 - 11/07/09  7:56pm
" Has someone been giving you a load of crap Brian? Hope it's not been too serious.

As far as I'm concerned each to their own, as long as it's all between consenting adults I'm fine with it.
I'm too busy sorting out my own life to police anyone else's sex life, but I know there's some idiots out there who don't see it that way. "

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